How is it that women are able to move on so quickly?

[Pier7]

A chick will be in a relationship with with a motherfukka for 10 years, have two kids with a nikka. Then Divorce and be married again 8 months down the line



Why do women jump on the new dikk train so quick rather than, falling back and collecting themselves for a few after a break up, like most men do.


Thread got inspired mainly by Mariah Carey getting engaged to a new nikka when it hasnt even been a year since her divorce with cannon . Ciara and Russel Wilson another example.


As well as a few...........personal experiences

 

[MillionMills]

Men love hard
Women love often

Plus, women are checked out mentally a loooong time before things are officially over

 

[DarkHorse23]

Is this a trick question? Because the average woman has multiple options and backup plans.

/ thread

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Unlike men females plot

They plot for 3 years and they check out early

So by the time she leaves..the transition is easy

 

[a murda]

Vagina is a helluva drug

 

[Diondon]

Because she been done over it, breh. Women be still in relationships looking at the exit door like

 

[NBA Youngbreh]

Women be plotting, they got options so watch your money close brehs

 

[Verbal Kint]

Because the nikka she jumps to is gonna have to take years of Ls while she deals with all her emotional issues from her previous relationships. Getting a new man ain't the same as moving on

 

[GhettoTeK]

Because women are HOESSS!!

 

[DreadBrown]

I dont think this is true universally, maybe women are just better at convincing themselves and others that they moved on.

 

[Cake]

Average female has more options. She's already sleeping with someone else before your breakup is even official.

Average dude doesn't have as many options. After a breakup he'll have to search for months and work hard to pull something.

 

[wickedsm]

I don't know that women overall move on any quicker than men
But

If we do I think there's 2 main contributers

1. Women seek out/want to be in relationships (generally speaking)
2. It's easier to meet attract men as a woman than it is the reverse (generally speaking )

A third thing that also probably contributes is that as women we aren't shamed or shunned for showing our emotions and have the opportunity to get support and shoulders to lean on from the moment it happens. We can cry, break shyt, make voodoo dolls whatever and no one will think badly of us for it.

 

[whknorth]

because they have the hot blood of Satan running through their ice cold veins.

 

[It is a mystery]

Plus, women are checked out mentally a loooong time before things are officially over

This combined with 1 variable: how many relationships she's been in prior. If it's a lot expect checkout to be easier than if it were only a few as she's done it more times

 

[wickedsm]

Ftr I think it's wise to take a solid break after a big breakup.
Work on yourself and take a really honest look at what went wrong what worked and what didn't and what will you change next go round.
This applies to men and women.