I need some advice from all the dudes that left home to move to different cities

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I seriously gotta leave in order to save myself.....i wanna move to houston in a few months if things dont pop off locally.....what r some tips yall can give

my plan is: basically to fly down these with no car, and cop a joint off the lot and pay month....stay with a roommate and try to find a job somewhere. bonus would be me finding some desperate female simp that will trick off on me until i get on my feet
 
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Breh, if you're a grown man you gotta set yourself up the right way.
Try to find a job before you move there. Have some cash saved up. Find a place to live before you get there.

Even if you found a job within a week, it still takes a few weeks for payroll to process your stuff so you gotta expect you won't have any money for at least 3-5 weeks.
 

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Im seriously gotta leave in order to save myself.....i wanna move to houston in a few months if things dont pop off locally.....what r some tips yall can give

my plan is: basically to fly down these with no car, and cop a joint off the lot and pay month....stay with a roommate and try to find a job somewhere. bonus would be me finding some desperate female simp that will trick off on me until i get on my feet

You can always find a desperate chick to shack up with for a while. Houston has plenty. lol
 
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Im seriously gotta leave in order to save myself.....i wanna move to houston in a few months if things dont pop off locally.....what r some tips yall can give

my plan is: basically to fly down these with no car, and cop a joint off the lot and pay month....stay with a roommate and try to find a job somewhere. bonus would be me finding some desperate female simp that will trick off on me until i get on my feet
that's the dumbest idea i've ever heard... and yes i'm a transplant

unless you got a RACK of money saved... 3-4 months in rent and bills in a savings account, you will be broke and back home in no time flat... if you really need me to explain why, i will
 

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Im seriously gotta leave in order to save myself.....i wanna move to houston in a few months if things dont pop off locally.....what r some tips yall can give

my plan is: basically to fly down these with no car, and cop a joint off the lot and pay month....stay with a roommate and try to find a job somewhere. bonus would be me finding some desperate female simp that will trick off on me until i get on my feet

Make sure you have some money saved up at least. Or at least make sure you have something lined up.
 

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You can always find a desperate chick to shack up with for a while. Houston has plenty. lol
yeah man, getting a chick aint nothing.....i was thinking about this

instead of going the roommate route
 

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that's the dumbest idea i've ever heard... and yes i'm a transplant

unless you got a RACK of money saved... 3-4 months in rent and bills in a savings account, you will be broke and back home in no time flat... if you really need me to explain why, i will
got 10k bruh.....im not worry about the first 3-4 months.....im worry about losing it to paying bills and having to break even....leaving me pay check to pay check
 

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is it hard find jobs in the H?
 

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got 10k bruh.....im not worry about the first 3-4 months.....im worry about losing it to paying bills and having to break even....leaving me pay check to pay check

you have to decide what do you want more... to get out of your city... or to have that 10k... cause basically moving to a new city is going to cost around 5k in startup costs flat... is texas a new state for you?

at the end of the day do it... you dont want to live in the same place your entire life... but dont count on silly shyt like shackiing up with some bottom barrel ho... get your shyt straight and do it like a man.

a man aint a man without a plan.
 

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got 10k bruh.....im not worry about the first 3-4 months.....im worry about losing it to paying bills and having to break even....leaving me pay check to pay check
and that is exactly what will happen

you'll have to pay first and last months rent... plus a deposit... there goes some.. plus monthly rent and bills/set up/deposits for utilties

you'll have to furnish the place.. unless you plan on sleeping on a blow up mattress and keeping your clothes in a box... or move, which will cost money

you'll have to supply food all day... gas to drive and find these jobs and do interviews

you might get bored and want to go do something

who's to say you'll get hired anywhere good for months... meanwhile you got all money going out, and none coming in




your best best is to find the job first... plenty places hire if they know you are willing to relocate.. you'll spend less money flying or driving there for interviews, than paying a month rent trying to do it. it'll also allow you to keep whatever income you have now, so you at least putting some of this spending, back in your account

once you have the job, they tend to give you time to find a place to live... then go about your life...


that's exactly what i had to do last year.. and exactly what my stepdad did when we moved from pa to va when i was little

job, house, move... anything else is gonna cost you and leave you with no guarantees
 

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and that is exactly what will happen

you'll have to pay first and last months rent... plus a deposit... there goes some.. plus monthly rent and bills/set up/deposits for utilties

you'll have to furnish the place.. unless you plan on sleeping on a blow up mattress and keeping your clothes in a box... or move, which will cost money

you'll have to supply food all day... gas to drive and find these jobs and do interviews

you might get bored and want to go do something

who's to say you'll get hired anywhere good for months... meanwhile you got all money going out, and none coming in




your best best is to find the job first... plenty places hire if they know you are willing to relocate.. you'll spend less money flying or driving there for interviews, than paying a month rent trying to do it. it'll also allow you to keep whatever income you have now, so you at least putting some of this spending, back in your account

once you have the job, they tend to give you time to find a place to live... then go about your life...


that's exactly what i had to do last year.. and exactly what my stepdad did when we moved from pa to va when i was little

job, house, move... anything else is gonna cost you and leave you with no guarantees
u think theyll hired me without a face 2 face interview?
 

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What are you gonna do in houston though? Like are you hireable? Can you line up a job before you go out there? If you can't find a job do you have a hustle? How much do you have saved?


You don't want to go to a new city without having your bands up. I would say have at least 3 months of rent saved, + another 2-5k for emergencies.

But how the fukk you gonna get a car off the lot and do payments if you don't have no legal job lined up yet? You gotta have proof of income for the past year to get a car like that breh.

As far as bytches go? If your dikk game is strong thats your best bet. What you actually wanna do is find a bytch in your current city right? Make her move with you. That way stuff will cost less from the start since you'll be splitting + females find jobs easier.
 
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