That's how the games are. They always magically get out of situations.
No, you as the player get them out of those situations because it's a video game. Then a cutscene plays to further the story. It's not usual plot armor I care about. I'm speaking on in the show where the plot is just moving by her escaping instead of fighting her way through things a bit. There's a completely different relationship that people have with Ellie based on this.
I understand she can't be female John Wick but then you have to figure out how to make it work and they really haven't.
It's a completely different journey from the game but doesn't mix with how the story portrays the cycle of violence and vengeance.
The first season worked because it's mostly on how humanity/family can survive in the worst situations.
It's just not written well enough this season and hopefully they figure it out next season.