The Official Life Advice Thread

[Prynce]

This is a thread for brehs and brehettes to share the life wisdom and jewels they gained over their life. A lot of younger posters like myself might need some game from time to time and this can be a safe place for us to ask questions.

@Poitier @Darth Plagueis @JamilALAmin @The Mad Titan @Malta @Jay Kast

Y'all brehs older than me and I respect y'alls mind. You've all gave me advice in the past. I would like if yall would share just some general life gems in here. Anybody is welcome to add on.

My biggest gem I got to give right now is learn how to not give a fukk. It will set you free

 

[Prynce]

@Barnett114 can I get a sticky and feature

 

[Lo-Co]

This is a thread for brehs and brehettes to share the life wisdom and jewels they gained over their life. A lot of younger posters like myself might need some game from time to time and this can be a safe place for us to ask questions.

@Poitier @Darth Plagueis @JamilALAmin @The Mad Titan @Malta @Jay Kast

Y'all brehs older than me and I respect y'alls mind. You've all gave me advice in the past. I would like if yall would share just some general life gems in here. Anybody is welcome to add on.

My biggest gem I got to give right now is learn how to not give a fukk. It will set you free

speak on it

 

[Sccit]

BE REAL

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[Prynce]

speak on it

You place too much value on people's opinions. Caring too much about life is not healthy mentally. You have to accept that you can't control life. But you can control your emotions and how you react too life.

Everything doesn't deserve your emotional distress. Don't stress bout no female cause they gonna do what the fukk they wanna do. Do stress some dude cause they not worth impressing. You have to live for yourself and not validation.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Learn to let go

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Moving on from grudges:

The best revenge is living well.

When you think ppl are ahead of you:

It's not where you start; it's where you end.

For the people who need a boost in esteem:

I am beautiful; I am enough.

For the people to stop pondering so much:

The best advice is no advice.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

My biggest gem I got to give right now is learn how to not give a fukk

I need to learn how.

My advice is to let the past go. If you hated your classmates and you are no longer in school with them. Let it go. Kids are a$$holes, in grammar to high school they are trying to understand who they are. Years later 90% of them have changed for the better & are focused on being adults. 10% unfortunately haven't gotten there. Hopefully by your ten year reunion you can come face to face and just have a normal conversation without reflecting on the past. It worked for me & next weekend I'm gonna see a few people I saw last year at the reunion. Hopefully that 10% has matured.

 

[IdealMan]

Shhhh!

 

[Milk N Cookies]

March to your own beat. No matter who tells you different, just be who you are. A lot of people don't get you because you aren't the 'norm' they are bothered that you are not what the stardards want you to be. When they are checking for you for doing your thing and openly hating on you; they're mad cause they dont have the confidence to do it themselves.

This is something I have delt with at my job. bytches loved to talk shyt cause I dress a certain way & im so random. But my personality will light up a room. I'm humble and a very delightful person. I wear bright colors and some feel as a dark skinned chick that I shouldn't. But I do it anyway so I can be seen from afar. I am fabulous & they will deal.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Some things you probably hear all the time, but don't really listen too.


Take your time aka pace yourself. It's a marathon not a race. The goal is to finish not finish 1st neccerily.


Live by some kind of principle. A lot of people now just live with no type of principle or moral. You need to have something that is a personal anchor for you.

Otherwise you are bound to follow, do, and try anything with no true sense of center.



Life is about how hard you can get hit and keep going. Everyone is going to take L's no amount of planning is going to get you out of that. Learn from your mistakes and look at yourself and your actions as objectively as possible.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

When you have a shytty day, go to the gym and take it out on the punching bag.

 

[AldavisAlbundyAllah!]

Discipline = Freedom

Ideas are worthless , it's all about the execution.

Attention is worth more than $$$

Nationalism , ancestry , hometown beliefs etc are all overrated. Mold your own from all over the world.

Leave your hometown asap and don't come back untill your have something to give /share

Long term > short term. Have a 30 year plan.

If you don't like reading books take udemy courses etc to be an active learner ( or both ) . Most importantly FINISH.

Coffee, water & Internet >> any drug / alcohol beverege


Tbc

 

[King Musa]

If you have a steady support system via parents, family and friends....By no means should you allow yourself to be coodled by that system to the point of not knowing what to do when shyt hits the fan....Make sure you formulate ways to create a self sufficient support system so that the support system created via parents, family and friends is just an extra additive to your own system...made the mistake of relying on that external support system for financial, mental and emotional support...That system is crumbling before me and I'm in for a rude awakening.

 

[Family Lives Matter]

I think the best advice I can give is not to take advice from random strangersbon a forum