Sup Brehs. Remember me? Anyways... This question has been lingering with me for a long time. Why do guys who go to the gym a lot like thick girls? I actually met my husband in the gym. He is tall, and has a very athletic build. I'm 5ft 4 and was about 160lbs at the time we met. (I've lost weight since then, and he has told me to stop. Lol) Even at that weight, I was always told I have a nice body (probably because my butt is big) but wasn't comfortable with myself.he always told me I was fine, just "tone up". When he first spoke to me, I just thought he was being friendly but would never date me. It continued on as I would come to the gym, and we ended up together. I have been approached by "gym niccas" a lot. Other thick (bigger) girls have this experience too. Why is that?