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So the Cali relationship really went left, some of you knlw the bytch sent me to jail
And all that and I moved far away from her and the situation once I got out.

Toxic relationship that was, lot of immaturity from her. Cold shoulder I was sleeping on the couch to not hear her or deal with her. Well she found another guy to be with during all of this that she is in love with. Which is fine to me because he's in for a world of stress. Like me going to jail for arguing with her and not even touching her. Besides the point she knew I was leaving and had someone on standby and still fukked me (rubber was on) till A couple days till I left and instead of taking the time to work on herself she jumped right into something else. Then still sending me ass shots, still on my line...anyways its been a little while now of no contact. No text calls or social media and I'm fine... I think after the first month mark I missed her for a day then dwelled on the situation for another day then I fukked this chubby bytch with alotta ass in a hotel for about an hour and she let me hang her head off the bed and fukk her face. Also let me skeet on her face so I was over any type of thoughts of the past. Now I colped the upgraded profile on POF and Cellie Boomin brehs, that upgrade has 7's+ in my inbox and wanting to meet/connect favoriting me and all that. Been staying active.. Was banned on here but it's good because more time for me to take care of business. Probably am jugglinng like 3 solid females figuring out which one is gonna hold it down for me.

Not cuffing shyt, need be around person 6 months before we can be bf/gf then another year at least before even rapping about moving in maybe even 2 years chime
In brehs brehettes
 
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Assuming this is not :troll: :duck:....

You need to focus on getting your record expunged if possible or expatriation. You're looking at this from the wrong angle. fukking more ghettotron bytches is NOT going to improve your life at this point. :heh:
 
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Been single for a year. Can't even get text backs. Good for you

You not making enough cash flow to get them piqued.

You need to hit up the escort thread, pick up some tips. Blow off some steam in some bytch (the escort p*ssy is the same p*ssy you would be able to get wasting 10 hours to get it, 10 hours that could have been spent studying for a cert) then get back to the grind.

Stop wasting time texting back and forth with these amateur hoes. Just bust your ass working hard, buy some IG bytch for an hour bust a nut then wake up the next morning with a fresh mind and get back to evolving yourself.
 

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Assuming this is not :troll: :duck:....

You need to focus on getting your record expunged if possible or expatriation. You're looking at this from the wrong angle. fukking more ghettotron bytches is NOT going to improve your life at this point. :heh:
Hmm how do you know I have a record? :jbhmm:


Anywhoo, theres no expunging in my situation. Only clemency which Im fully eligible for everything in 2019 only thing right now Is voting rights which I have restored. Other than that I feel like I won. I got out of my lease in Cali, took the dog, came out of jail unscathed no evidence to prosecute so no strings attatched to me and she went to a 21 year old kid :mjlol: someone to walk over? bytch you haven't even worked all 2016. Stopped going to school months and months ago and your degree was supposed to be done last summer. So even though I feel I made it out given situation. It's still times you think you been with someone past 2 years living together and now you dont even speak it is what it is
 
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Hmm how do you know I have a record? :jbhmm:


Anywhoo, theres no expunging in my situation. Only clemency which Im fully eligible for everything in 2019 only thing right now Is voting rights which I have restored. Other than that I feel like I won. I got out of my lease in Cali, took the dog, came out of jail unscathed no evidence to prosecute so no strings attatched to me and she went to a 21 year old kid :mjlol: someone to walk over? bytch you haven't even worked all 2016. Stopped going to school months and months ago and your degree was supposed to be done last summer. So even though I feel I made it out given situation. It's still times you think you been with someone past 2 years living together and now you dont even speak it is what it is

You said you been to jail so I'm assuming you served some time (a year? two years?) and it's gonna be impossible to get a legit job. Unless I'm mistaken and you just went to county lock-up awaiting a hearing.

2019 - 2 and a 1/2 years away. In the meantime you need to be trying to teach ESL abroad and feed yourself somehow. Get out of America, come back in 2020 after you've learned something and can get back on the grind. Or if you can make it elsewhere, don't come back.

I'm dead serious, if my pay wasn't so high here I would have expatriated already.
 

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You said you been to jail so I'm assuming you served some time (a year? two years?) and it's gonna be impossible to get a legit job. Unless I'm mistaken and you just went to county lock-up awaiting a hearing.

2019 - 2 and a 1/2 years away. In the meantime you need to be trying to teach ESL abroad and feed yourself somehow. Get out of America, come back in 2020 after you've learned something and can get back on the grind. Or if you can make it elsewhere, don't come back.

I'm dead serious, if my pay wasn't so high here I would have expatriated already.
Don't you need a bachelors degree for most ESL jobs tho? I'm sure you can get away without having one in China though..
 
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Don't you need a bachelors degree for most ESL jobs tho? I'm sure you can get away without having one in China though..

China is unregulated outside of major cities also Vietnam and Cambodia.

He'll earn at least 25k-35k but it gets you further in China than it would here.
 

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You said you been to jail so I'm assuming you served some time (a year? two years?) and it's gonna be impossible to get a legit job. Unless I'm mistaken and you just went to county lock-up awaiting a hearing.

2019 - 2 and a 1/2 years away. In the meantime you need to be trying to teach ESL abroad and feed yourself somehow. Get out of America, come back in 2020 after you've learned something and can get back on the grind. Or if you can make it elsewhere, don't come back.

I'm dead serious, if my pay wasn't so high here I would have expatriated already.
I was already a felon before I met her, I have that 2019 to mark my 10 years clean out of any trouble. fukked around moved to cali and met her and Ive been locked up in LA county and Orance County both no joke.
But we were on bad terms in the relationship maybe other guys were telling her she can do better and deserves all this great treatment and in reality she treated me like
shyt. Id go to work all day and come
Home to her complaining about having to be home with the dog etc etc and the house is a mess etc etc. stopped sleeping in the bed because she said I was indenting it because I was too heavy ( im 209 lbs 5'11) id agree on heavier than when we met but too heavy? Come on son. I started boolin on the couch on the regular and going to work
In the morning without saying a word. She was so cold shouldered to me that it really affected my work
Performance, smoking damn near a whole L on my way to work every morning to deal with my sales job which was high stress as it is. Then she hits me with the "you gonna pay all the rent this month? ($2000) I cant afford My half" what? I put foot down and said no and arguement insued and she put her sister on the phone and her sister is like "fukk that piece of shyt get away from my sister you motherfukker" and that confused me because if i make sure shes fed and take care of shyt and Im
A piece of shyt? Damn how you become a great guy? In the commotion my dog was scared and she went under the bed, I wanted to take my dog and leave and let this
Miserable woman be but no she kept getting in my way and screaming and blockkng
Me and her sister says shes calling cops and to stop hitting her... Again WTF?
I got tired of games and told her sister to stfu and put a man on the phone because you women are fukked mentally and here she puts this square ass c00n who I met before and this nikka is a ninja turtles fan boy at like 30 yrs old and is a cop for something like an on base cop at a military base or something stupid. He is a c00n for sure to be with my ex sister she looks like a
Man for one and is pure cave bytch who wont even tell her family what she does for a living other than she has a "government job" so i told him
Check his bytch. Also that i didnt care he was a cop because Im doing nothing wrong IN MY HOUSE

But wait... This story is going to take some nasty little turns and twists prior to this earlier in the day when I came home she shows me this big ass bruise on her side of her upper leg and this shyt is huge ... She said she fell down the stairs..... We been living same place almost a year and this happens all sudden? Her wrists have bruises from the dog being to rough with her according to her. So whatever the sister calls
Cops and im like
You know what im outta here
And try to make it to my car but 3 cop cars pull up immediately for me in hindsight only thing i would done diffrrent is just chilled in the house and not let them in but im
Innocent so wtf plus this is literally 10th time shes threatened to call the cops, the time before this she was mad i smelled like tree and callsd the boys from house phone and hung up.. Call
still went thru and they dispatched units and luckily she went outside and said she was setting up her iphone emergency contacts and misdialed... Again ima 3 time
Loser already so any police contact is terrible .... So back to the main story they asked me whats going on and i was 100% sober and calm and I said we had a argument and her sister 3000 miles away called you guys. They went checked her story and the cock sucker cop came back asking if I threw a pillow at her etc etc I even said I recorded the arguement for my
Protection to prove I never touchdd anyone and wouldnt ya know... "Sir stand up, spread your feet hands behind your back" :francis:

Told them to not arrest me
In front of public view I have dignity and my neighborhood is upscale. Original bond 50k
Go to the local holding area awaiting transport to oc jail. I get there and go thru medical clearance then to holding cell
And my charge was domestic violence... Nasty crooked police set me up
By letting a guy into my
Cell and i was on point his cuffs came off and he said "wassup homie" and ran at me I jumped up instantly and caught him
In the chin he fell
Into my chest and i pulled shirt over his head and went to tagging him, police ran in separated us and the police beat my ass and kneed me jn the head after telling them
Im cool I was defending myself they really
Set me up
i asked why the fukk did you officers put
Me in jiu jutsu holds and knee me? "Dunno
What you talkin bout" oh ite... Went to
Bond out on the 50k with only 4k to put up and they said we coming, i actually thought the first
One i called from
The first holding area would have been there but i was paying whoever got
Me first. I go to get classified and they raise my bond up to 250k:ohhh:
Now i gotta sit.

came
In on a thurs night had wait till
Court monday, went to te court and sat all day they never called me
And dropped it. I got out and took a vacay outta state and came back fukked her and she got weird after that and had police calling my phone to not contact her or the neighbor or some guy which ended up
Being her new bf. So I dipset and used that court ordered paper to stay away to get out my lease took dog bounced. Been stress free ever since.
 

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I was already a felon before I met her, I have that 2019 to mark my 10 years clean out of any trouble. fukked around moved to cali and met her and Ive been locked up in LA county and Orance County both no joke.
But we were on bad terms in the relationship maybe other guys were telling her she can do better and deserves all this great treatment and in reality she treated me like
shyt. Id go to work all day and come
Home to her complaining about having to be home with the dog etc etc and the house is a mess etc etc. stopped sleeping in the bed because she said I was indenting it because I was too heavy ( im 209 lbs 5'11) id agree on heavier than when we met but too heavy? Come on son. I started boolin on the couch on the regular and going to work
In the morning without saying a word. She was so cold shouldered to me that it really affected my work
Performance, smoking damn near a whole L on my way to work every morning to deal with my sales job which was high stress as it is. Then she hits me with the "you gonna pay all the rent this month? ($2000) I cant afford My half" what? I put foot down and said no and arguement insued and she put her sister on the phone and her sister is like "fukk that piece of shyt get away from my sister you motherfukker" and that confused me because if i make sure shes fed and take care of shyt and Im
A piece of shyt? Damn how you become a great guy? In the commotion my dog was scared and she went under the bed, I wanted to take my dog and leave and let this
Miserable woman be but no she kept getting in my way and screaming and blockkng
Me and her sister says shes calling cops and to stop hitting her... Again WTF?
I got tired of games and told her sister to stfu and put a man on the phone because you women are fukked mentally and here she puts this square ass c00n who I met before and this nikka is a ninja turtles fan boy at like 30 yrs old and is a cop for something like an on base cop at a military base or something stupid. He is a c00n for sure to be with my ex sister she looks like a
Man for one and is pure cave bytch who wont even tell her family what she does for a living other than she has a "government job" so i told him
Check his bytch. Also that i didnt care he was a cop because Im doing nothing wrong IN MY HOUSE

But wait... This story is going to take some nasty little turns and twists prior to this earlier in the day when I came home she shows me this big ass bruise on her side of her upper leg and this shyt is huge ... She said she fell down the stairs..... We been living same place almost a year and this happens all sudden? Her wrists have bruises from the dog being to rough with her according to her. So whatever the sister calls
Cops and im like
You know what im outta here
And try to make it to my car but 3 cop cars pull up immediately for me in hindsight only thing i would done diffrrent is just chilled in the house and not let them in but im
Innocent so wtf plus this is literally 10th time shes threatened to call the cops, the time before this she was mad i smelled like tree and callsd the boys from house phone and hung up.. Call
still went thru and they dispatched units and luckily she went outside and said she was setting up her iphone emergency contacts and misdialed... Again ima 3 time
Loser already so any police contact is terrible .... So back to the main story they asked me whats going on and i was 100% sober and calm and I said we had a argument and her sister 3000 miles away called you guys. They went checked her story and the cock sucker cop came back asking if I threw a pillow at her etc etc I even said I recorded the arguement for my
Protection to prove I never touchdd anyone and wouldnt ya know... "Sir stand up, spread your feet hands behind your back" :francis:

Told them to not arrest me
In front of public view I have dignity and my neighborhood is upscale. Original bond 50k
Go to the local holding area awaiting transport to oc jail. I get there and go thru medical clearance then to holding cell
And my charge was domestic violence... Nasty crooked police set me up
By letting a guy into my
Cell and i was on point his cuffs came off and he said "wassup homie" and ran at me I jumped up instantly and caught him
In the chin he fell
Into my chest and i pulled shirt over his head and went to tagging him, police ran in separated us and the police beat my ass and kneed me jn the head after telling them
Im cool I was defending myself they really
Set me up
i asked why the fukk did you officers put
Me in jiu jutsu holds and knee me? "Dunno
What you talkin bout" oh ite... Went to
Bond out on the 50k with only 4k to put up and they said we coming, i actually thought the first
One i called from
The first holding area would have been there but i was paying whoever got
Me first. I go to get classified and they raise my bond up to 250k:ohhh:
Now i gotta sit.

came
In on a thurs night had wait till
Court monday, went to te court and sat all day they never called me
And dropped it. I got out and took a vacay outta state and came back fukked her and she got weird after that and had police calling my phone to not contact her or the neighbor or some guy which ended up
Being her new bf. So I dipset and used that court ordered paper to stay away to get out my lease took dog bounced. Been stress free ever since.
Bruh... what you need to do is get your life together first man. Don't even be thinking about women or relationships. You need to do A LOT of work on yourself, because you clearly have low self-esteem to deal with a woman like that. Get your weight and health in order, your job and money situation, sue dat bytch and the cop for setting you up, do whatever you can to get those charges dropped too.

Good luck breh :salute:
 

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Bruh... what you need to do is get your life together first man. Don't even be thinking about women or relationships. You need to do A LOT of work on yourself, because you clearly have low self-esteem to deal with a woman like that. Get your weight and health in order, your job and money situation, sue dat bytch and the cop for setting you up, do whatever you can to get those charges dropped too.

Good luck breh :salute:
They was dropped the day I got out, i ran up up in her wit a yondom and got the uhaul and dipped, now im chilling less money coming out just me burning, chilling with new women, women think im handsome, stick thots and I may not cuff none cause i still got it :whew: no low esteem just was blinded by what I thought was love but it was toxic


Im in this bytch unscathed! Double salutes
 
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