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I've honestly never had an ex say anything that vile to me (who knows what they say behind my back tho), but I'm generally on good terms with most of them. my wife definitely hasn't.

the worst I had one do is fukk some dude that she knew I hated to get back at me

but joke was on her because I was over her bullshyt at that point and was glad she was his problem now :mjlol:
 

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Leave.
It's simple.
Get up.
AND GO.
For an extra kicker, laugh while you do it and be sure to ignore all her calls/texts/rants for a solid 5 hours REGARDLESS of the time you leave and let her have that one sided argument with herself, or girlfriends, the Internet, simp nikkas waiting in the wings, her mama, YOUR mama or WHOMEVER ELSE The fukk ain't you, while she burns up inside. Cause that's what she wants, what she needs, what she desires from such incendiary moments is your attention, specifically the emotions she's purposefully evoking in you while not (In the moment) giving a solitary shyt about how you feel or factor into the matter past being nothing more than the fukking problem.
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You deny her that argument and she goes apeshyt. You might lose some property, but you can get that shyt back easily while chilling at a Diner or a Hooters with a Bourbon and the game on.
You see, the whole process of a woman pushing your buttons, arguing, cursing, degrading you, ranting and raving, is the fact that she SEE'S that fukk having an effect on your ass, and she knows she's protected in damn near ever situation short of a bullet to the face cause she thinks you won't go that far and you really shouldn't, but to sit there and argue, protect ya self, right the ship, explain the situation, assert dominance, with a mad/irrational/emotional woman? That's a fight that you won't win or at the very best, get a Pyrrhic victory.



Diffusing the situation takes too much energy, too much effort and women, most times don't want it be diffused, hence why they thrive on making you act as emotional as they are feeling, because they in a vindictive, hurt, or inconsiderate state and want you to be in that same disarray their hormones/feelings got them, and as a man you're often wired to act out differently, depending on your outlook on relationships, what constitutes abuse, and if women really should be disciplined physically like was socially allowed back in the 50's when domestic abuse, pills and lobotomies were used to contain 'uppity' women.

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I don't hit women...on purpose (Had to defend myself against a broad or two, knocked the wind out of 'em and started negotiations from there. Never a good time). I've never been the type of cat who felt like he had to beat a woman into achieving peace/subservience, nor do I look to issue some dominating level of control in which they can't rise to levels of anger/frustration and get up in my face and then the neighbours get to hearing them domestic Hadoukens being fettered out next door through thin apartment walls. And some women know this shyt, but they try and push you into it, hoping you'd break and give them enough evidence so they could punish you further via the Law/Vigiilante family members/Loss of Status when the shyt comes out. And I've been there before, brehs. Been on that precipice with the menstruating devils themselves as they try and lure you into that land of court proceedings, police involvement, paperwork typed and filed that shows that you're "Problematic" and prone to the erroneous definition of "Toxic masculinity" when it comes ot handling females in today's bytch made society, where grown nikkas gossip, wear capris and use words like "Shade" and "Tea" on some homogenized shyt.

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Nope. Gotta move better/smarter, Kings. Take your phone, Keys and leave that bytch with nothing to show whichever court and unsympathetic jury she done put the matter in, with nothing else other than CONJECTURE...not a concussion.

Arguing with women, unless you prone to violence, need to assert your dominance because you failed to do so in calmer times, or you a hoe yourself, is almost always a losing battle.
Leave and come back when she's willing to be calm and rational and discuss whatever she was trying to shout at you about. Especially if she looking to fight you on it, physically.
 
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I don’t give women like that energy AT ALL. I take the air out of the conflict by using the age old tactic that all men should master. Indifference.

Once I see a hint of out of control fukkery I internally hit the


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Ohhh that’s who you are. Now I see. I then remove every trace of her from my life. My presence, social media, phone numbers, pictures, etc. she no longer exists.

That’s what gets them in the end. They want the conflict. The back n forth. Or after they calmed down they may want to reconcile and talk about it. I deny them closure. Women like that are DANGEROUS. Their temporary feelings will get you jammed the fukk up.
 
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If you are constantly attracting those situations, there is something about you, your energy, your choice of women, or the way you treat women. That is not normal behavior.

You're probably right about this. All I can speak on is my romantic experiences. And most of the women I run into be on some other stuff.

Maybe I'm the problem though. That's always a possibility

/thread :manny:
 

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I never seen a nikka that says he getting p*ssy or in a relationship have so many things to say about women

They'll hit you with "Your mama died cause she couldn't live with having a failure like you as a son!!!! :pacspit: "

You would know she's no good before this even happens my nikka
 

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Have had past relationships where an ex overstepped. During my younger years as I dated, happened with a frequency that I used to think it was par for the course.

It was until I met the woman who'd become my wife that I realized that consistent, futile arguments aren't a constant in a healthy relationship or marriage.:wow:
 
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