2 black women...both with Ph.D's.

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Is this about dudes not wanting these chicks because they're pursuing higher education? Maybe some dudes are turned off by that, but I believe women make a much bigger issue of that than men do. Women tend to project their own ideas on to men as to why they're single....and education tends to be one of the main reasons.

As long as a woman leaves her education for where its useful, her profession, than no issue will be had. Unfortunately, we have a bunch of pumpkinhead chicks who like to carry their resume with them wherever they go, including dates and social functions. Unless I ask, I don't need to know that you're completing your thesis on the "Mating practices of white dolphins in the Pacific Ocean."

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I've been on this site long enough to know that she would be considered more attractive on here. Now if you wanna go deeper and talk about that, we can but these men aren't going to be truthful.
In my experience (I know a model who is doing law, I went to a selective school myself, many of my cousins and sister are successful women), they tend to have a superiority complex and they conduct themselves with an air of entitlement that turns off most men. They think that a good CV can be a substitute for personality. They tend to have unrealistic standards for men. They prioritize the superficial over substance. Its almost a lose-lose scenario for the average man which is why these women have the highest rates of singlehood. Both of my sisters are doctors, theyre still single and theyre in their mid 30s, and theyre still waiting for that one in a million. They dont even think about giving the average man a chance, and this has severely limited their options. As much as women detest gender roles, most women still feel like theyre entitled to men who earn significantly more than themselves, even if theyre earning 200gs as a doc or a lawyer. Most men arent going to kill themselves with stress trying meet these unrealistic standards when they could always go for the girl next door type who would appreciate them even if they have a mediocre desk job.

In other words success for a woman tend to manifest in them undesirable personality traits that can render them unapproachable and undesirable to the average male. Most are unapologetic elitists.
 
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Are you living vicariously through these women?
I'm sure they're not hurting for male adulation in their personal lives so why are you so invested in what thecoli.com thinks?
I guarantee those females aren't.
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Because women with the most advanced degrees are usually the most insecure
 

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In my experience (I know a model who is doing law, I went to a selective school myself, many of my cousins and sister are successful women), they tend to have a superiority complex and they conduct themselves with an air of entitlement that turns off most men. They think that a good CV can be a substitute for personality. They tend to have unrealistic standards for men. They prioritize the superficial over substance. Its almost a lose-lose scenario for the average man which is why these women have the highest rates of singlehood. Both of my sisters are doctors, theyre still single and theyre in their mid 30s, and theyre still waiting for that one in a million. They dont even think about giving the average man a chance, and this has severely limited their options. As much as women detest gender roles, most women still feel like theyre entitled to men who earn significantly more than themselves, even if theyre earning 200gs as a doc or a lawyer. Most men arent going to kill themselves with stress trying meet these unrealistic standards when they could always go for the girl next door type who would appreciate them even if they have a mediocre desk job.

In other words success for a woman tend to manifest all these undesirable traits that can render them unapproachable and undesirable to the average male

Just wait until they decide to "settle." Then, when none of the average brothers try talking to them anymore, they'll think it's because men are intimidated by smart women.
 

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has it all:wtf:....You know her?
Close thread. Like I said, I don't care if she has a PhD or not, I have to know you and establish a relationship with you to consider you a dime. Paperwork doesn't mean shyt to me in terms of attractiveness. Congrats is all I can give them and wish that their work is benefitting oppressed people; other than that, let's chop it up and we'll see if something develops
 

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Yall brehs be snitching on yourselves and you don't even know it:mjlol:

After reading the responses in this thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/brehs-i-think-i-might-have-found-a-thorough-dime.309782/
I was perplexed by the audaciousness of you nikkas.

Then I went back and read the responses in this thread:aicmon:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/black-woman-getting-a-ph-d-in-astrophysics.303006/

Is it a coincidence that the more attractive woman is getting shytted on?:lupe:
I wonder why that is?
Does beauty and brains intimidate to the point that you think it's ok to disrespect a woman and her accomplishments?
I've seen countless threads on ig thots with more respectful comments:snoop:

Coli brehs, please let me know why a woman who has it all make your balls shrivel up?

Personally, Its not based on fear, its based on compatibility. Most women who make it to such heights are fiercely independent and stubborn due to what it takes to achieve these goals in this society, especially as a Black Woman.

As far as the comments go...They just hate woman, and don't know why
 

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Yall brehs be snitching on yourselves and you don't even know it:mjlol:

After reading the responses in this thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/brehs-i-think-i-might-have-found-a-thorough-dime.309782/
I was perplexed by the audaciousness of you nikkas.

Then I went back and read the responses in this thread:aicmon:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/black-woman-getting-a-ph-d-in-astrophysics.303006/

Is it a coincidence that the more attractive woman is getting shytted on?:lupe:
I wonder why that is?
Does beauty and brains intimidate to the point that you think it's ok to disrespect a woman and her accomplishments?
I've seen countless threads on ig thots with more respectful comments:snoop:

Coli brehs, please let me know why a woman who has it all make your balls shrivel up?

I have a feeling you made this topic because of a post I made in a previous thread some simp was thirsting over and she supposedly had a doctorate.


I don't see why any dude would have a problem with a woman have a degree.Thats ridiculous. The fact is some broads go to extents to proclaim and over emphasize their degrees as if it completes them. What man wouldn't what a loyal that was educated and smart, it seems you made this thread to vent your frustration,Maybe you have degrees but not are not able to fullfill and sastisfy top bachelor man.
 

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In my experience (I know a model who is doing law, I went to a selective school myself, many of my cousins and sister are successful women), they tend to have a superiority complex and they conduct themselves with an air of entitlement that turns off most men. They think that a good CV can be a substitute for personality. They tend to have unrealistic standards for men. They prioritize the superficial over substance. Its almost a lose-lose scenario for the average man which is why these women have the highest rates of singlehood. Both of my sisters are doctors, theyre still single and theyre in their mid 30s, and theyre still waiting for that one in a million. They dont even think about giving the average man a chance, and this has severely limited their options. As much as women detest gender roles, most women still feel like theyre entitled to men who earn significantly more than themselves, even if theyre earning 200gs as a doc or a lawyer. Most men arent going to kill themselves with stress trying meet these unrealistic standards when they could always go for the girl next door type who would appreciate them even if they have a mediocre desk job.

In other words success for a woman tend to manifest all these undesirable traits that can render them unapproachable and undesirable to the average male

Nothing wrong with a woman waiting and not settling instead of trying to Build A Bear a ninja. Many men settle with women who stroke their ego or a good lay and end up having children by dumb ass women they cannot stand, hence the baby mama pandemic, or staying with her bc its cheaper.

Marriage and children is not the end goal for everyone and many are waiting until their mid late 30s(which is only old to CACs or people who expire before age 25), when they are emotionally and financially ready and have got clubbing out of their system. Instead of sitting their baby in their mama's living room floor Thursday-Sunday night.

No woman respects a man whose goals, ethics, and values do not mirror hers with no plan. Being an average (black) guy in this racist ass global regime is not going to cut it, we witness the collateral damage on the news everyday. Oddly enough, educated dudes in suits, mid management, business owners et. al. in non low income neighborhoods are not being massacred by the police - coincidence.

See what happens when regular dudes keep breeding with women with lower expectations who look good in a skirt and can "cook" ( frying red hots on bunny bread or making spaghetti dishes by today's standards).
 

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Is this about dudes not wanting these chicks because they're pursuing higher education? Maybe some dudes are turned off by that, but I believe women make a much bigger issue of that than men do. Women tend to project their own ideas on to men as to why they're single....and education tends to be one of the main reasons.

As long as a woman leaves her education for where its useful, her profession, than no issue will be had. Unfortunately, we have a bunch of pumpkinhead chicks who like to carry their resume with them wherever they go, including dates and social functions. Unless I ask, I don't need to know that you're completing your thesis on the "Mating practices of white dolphins in the Pacific Ocean."

Peace
I know this is for the topic at hand but bold sure as fukk isn't gender specific. The shyt I see on here from some "nerd", "regular", "good" dudes sounds just like them chicks you talking about in bold.

As for the topic I agree some chicks try to use their education like a dude would use money to get a girl. It don't really work that way esp when the same chick then is still oftentimes stingy as a chick with no money working at kicks.
 

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Nothing wrong with a woman waiting and not settling instead of trying to Build A Bear a ninja. Many men settle with women who stroke their ego or a good lay and end up having children by dumb ass women they cannot stand, hence the baby mama pandemic, or staying with her bc its cheaper.

Marriage and children is not the end goal for everyone and many are waiting until their mid late 30s(which is only old to CACs or people who expire before age 25), when they are emotionally and financially ready and have got clubbing out of their system. Instead of sitting their baby in their mama's living room floor Thursday-Sunday night.

No woman respects a man whose goals, ethics, and values do not mirror hers with no plan. Being an average (black) guy in this racist ass global regime is not going to cut it, we witness the collateral damage on the news everyday. Oddly enough, educated dudes in suits, mid management, business owners et. al. in non low income neighborhoods are not being massacred by the police - coincidence.

See what happens when regular dudes keep breeding with women with lower expectations who look good in a skirt and can "cook" ( frying red hots on bunny bread or making spaghetti dishes by today's standards).
Yeah Ive heard many cats do bold then act funny when they not with the chick they did no vetting on a year later but have a kid with. Second bold has a lot of truth too but you have to have somebody that looks good to you. You just have to do more vetting than do she look good, fukk good, that's it.
 

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Nothing wrong with a woman waiting and not settling instead of trying to Build A Bear a ninja. Many men settle with women who stroke their ego or a good lay and end up having children by dumb ass women they cannot stand, hence the baby mama pandemic, or staying with her bc its cheaper.

Marriage and children is not the end goal for everyone and many are waiting until their mid late 30s(which is only old to CACs or people who expire before age 25), when they are emotionally and financially ready and have got clubbing out of their system. Instead of sitting their baby in their mama's living room floor Thursday-Sunday night.

No woman respects a man whose goals, ethics, and values do not mirror hers with no plan. Being an average (black) guy in this racist ass global regime is not going to cut it, we witness the collateral damage on the news everyday. Oddly enough, educated dudes in suits, mid management, business owners et. al. in non low income neighborhoods are not being massacred by the police - coincidence.

See what happens when regular dudes keep breeding with women with lower expectations who look good in a skirt and can "cook" ( frying red hots on bunny bread or making spaghetti dishes by today's standards).
:francis:Did i say these women should be going for broke men.Im talking about the avergae man, making 60gs a year, owns a car, can support himself, stable.
 
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Nothing wrong with a woman waiting and not settling instead of trying to Build A Bear a ninja. Many men settle with women who stroke their ego or a good lay and end up having children by dumb ass women they cannot stand, hence the baby mama pandemic, or staying with her bc its cheaper.

Marriage and children is not the end goal for everyone and many are waiting until their mid late 30s(which is only old to CACs or people who expire before age 25), when they are emotionally and financially ready and have got clubbing out of their system. Instead of sitting their baby in their mama's living room floor Thursday-Sunday night.

No woman respects a man whose goals, ethics, and values do not mirror hers with no plan. Being an average (black) guy in this racist ass global regime is not going to cut it, we witness the collateral damage on the news everyday. Oddly enough, educated dudes in suits, mid management, business owners et. al. in non low income neighborhoods are not being massacred by the police - coincidence.

See what happens when regular dudes keep breeding with women with lower expectations who look good in a skirt and can "cook" ( frying red hots on bunny bread or making spaghetti dishes by today's standards).

dumb nikka talk :camby:
 

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In my experience (I know a model who is doing law, I went to a selective school myself, many of my cousins and sister are successful women), they tend to have a superiority complex and they conduct themselves with an air of entitlement that turns off most men. They think that a good CV can be a substitute for personality. They tend to have unrealistic standards for men. They prioritize the superficial over substance. Its almost a lose-lose scenario for the average man which is why these women have the highest rates of singlehood. Both of my sisters are doctors, theyre still single and theyre in their mid 30s, and theyre still waiting for that one in a million. They dont even think about giving the average man a chance, and this has severely limited their options. As much as women detest gender roles, most women still feel like theyre entitled to men who earn significantly more than themselves, even if theyre earning 200gs as a doc or a lawyer. Most men arent going to kill themselves with stress trying meet these unrealistic standards when they could always go for the girl next door type who would appreciate them even if they have a mediocre desk job.

In other words success for a woman tend to manifest in them undesirable personality traits that can render them unapproachable and undesirable to the average male. Most are unapologetic elitists.

To be fair, a lot of successful male professional only want a house wife or at the very least someone down to earth/easy going. So her type A personality is not going to attract the kind of guy she wants.

Most of these women end up seeking professional help/therapy to understand their relationship problems. Usually, this is the only way for them to make sense of their world and not be so out of touch.
 
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