32, not married, no kids, life is on easy mode but starting to get scared

[Mirin4rmfar]

I see people all around me getting married and having kids here I am still grinding.

Not that I dont have any prospects. Got a 25 year who wants to settle down, have kids but ultimately I am afraid of responsibilities.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

If u feel she for u go for it breh
This one life.

u sound like u think wit ya head and not ya heart so u know the answer deep down

 

[ShackZilla89]

I'm in the same boat, same age too.

 

[Collateral]

It sounds like you’re afraid of manhood

 

[kingdizzy01]

32 and afraid of growing up? u sure u a man?

 

[Remote]

Grinding for what?
What's your plan?

 

[BigE214]

At least knock a bih up. You gettin' old bruh. You don't wanna be droppin lil man off at pre-k when you're 40

 

[PCHMalibu]

It doesn't sound like you're afraid to have kids. From the way you wrote it it seems like you're afraid of NOT having kids because of what your social group will think.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Wtf? These are female ass thoughts. Lol at seeing others getting married and basing your life choices off that. You sound like a bird.

But on a real note cancel that 25 yr old. She has a ready made family. It only gets easier at your age. You can pick who you want, when you want. Just keep yourself in shape and maintain your worth.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I feel u
Same

 

[Dad]

Don’t do it. You aren’t ready.

Enjoy your time being free.

 

[Wild self]

It sounds like you’re afraid of manhood

There is more to manhood than marriage #GMB

 

[BlackBall]

Don’t cave into social pressure lots of people go the married with children route because that’s “expectation “

 

[BaggerofTea]

Prioritize your vision of you life first

You are still young and a man in his 40s who takes care of himself physically/mentally/financially will always be able to have kids

 

[Patrick Kane]

It sounds like you’re afraid of manhood

Don’t try to guilt nikkas into having kids and a family and defining that as manhood

The first page of the TLR is currently filled with men who’s lives are in shambles because of marriage/kids and many of them had the same notion you’re putting out there and had kids/got married when they should have had no business doing it.

So many fukked up kids and broken homes because of this ridiculous thought process