35 and up guys, would you seriously date a young Grandmother (35 to 50)?

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I literally never encountered this.

I don't mind dating men with children as long as they are over the age of 6 years old. But grandchildren in your 30s?

Idk that sort of dynamic probably wouldn’t work for me. Too much unregulated reckless fukking.
 
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My co-worker hooked me up with her friend. Told me she had a daughter. At my age, I can accept one, maybe two. But she has to be amazing and have good kids. So ending up running into each other at a Festival downtown. She was pretty, well kept classy and very cool. Ending up talking on the phone the next day, she tells me she has to go babysit her grandson.
:picard:

I'm like wtf cause she's only like 37, they must be from a fukkin fukkin family. And that means somebody was going raw and wreckless in High school. I was so turned off. I dont have kids and I like younger women. I was just going with the flow and giving her a chance. End up meeting a 46 year old, Blasian looking. Very nice and classy looking. We talk, tells me shes in Houston visiting her new grandbaby. I got so turned off, I dont even want to just smash anymore.
:what:


I'm really not prepared to be a stepdad, so step granddad is out of the question. Maybe i'm looking for ahead. But I feel like I'll have to go to events to help support her kids and I'm just not ready for all that. I'll have to really like her.

prolly just a coincidence but I just smashed a blasian grandma from Houston in July.
 

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I’m 26 and I’m fukking @Double Burger With Cheese momma and she’s 61 :shaq:

Old as shyt and a bit sick but she still got that fire Toto and can sure take the dikk :youngsabo: plus she be giving her some of her retirement check and told me when she croaks I’m getting a lil sum thing from her inheritance:ahh:
 

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If they got a divorce. They would. 39 is 20 years later.
Well yes if you change a major factor that would change the narrative.

Them being divorcees would present a set of challenges, real and perceived…..

Your mother and grandmother are not relevant to this discussion and that’s ok.
 
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Well yes if you change a major factor that would change the narrative.

Them being divorcees would present a set of challenges, real and perceived…..

Your mother and grandmother are not relevant to this discussion and that’s ok.
They are 100% relevant because them being divorced after 20 years is a challenge that married people face regardless of when they get married. I mean. Look at the divorce rates u nikkas gotta be joking. Lol. The point is it doesn’t inherently mean someone is a hoe or unstable or whatever women hating fukking narrative yall be tryna push.
 

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They are 100% relevant because them being divorced after 20 years is a challenge that married people face regardless of when they get married. I mean. Look at the divorce rates u nikkas gotta be joking. Lol. The point is it doesn’t inherently mean someone is a hoe or unstable or whatever women hating fukking narrative yall be tryna push.
Why are you so pressed to have your mother and grandmother in this discussion?
If you have to change a key aspect about them for them be eligible then they are not relevant. They are married and not in the dating pool full stop.

As I said above if they were divorced that’s a different set of issues combined with the grands children that brehs would have to consider. I’ve already addressed that.

Has nothing to do with any women hating narrative.
 
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I got one who I been rocking with since high school. Took her virginity and been rocking with her ever since. She is 36 and her oldest daughter got a kid.
Been dating grandmas since I was in college :skip:
I grabbed someone's number a few months back who was 29 found out she had a 12 year old son unfortunately...
That'll be her in a decade. She was fine too:francis:

And Coli fakkits that need to post the last word trying to say this isn’t common :mjlol:
 

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If her kids are married and stable while having a young baby that's one thing. But usually that's not the case with people having babies young. So their kids issues, drama etc will eventually become your issues and impact your relationship if you date someone like that. She gonna end up having to watch her grandchild while her daughter is out at the club on the weekends (and probably get pregnant again). 99% of the time It's not worth it.
 
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