5 Reasons You Should Date A Single Mom

[mamba]

So many men are often put off by dating a single mom, and I have to say it's a little mystifying to me. There are some seriously outdated misconceptions out there that give single moms a bad rap, like the belief that single mothers are just looking for a dad for their kids (please, my kid's dad rocks and I'm not in search for a replacement!). When it comes down to it, I really think single moms are the dating world's best kept secret. Here's why:

1. Low Drama

Look, we've had a baby (or two or three), we've been through a divorce... we're pretty focused on raising our children and supporting our families. We're all grown up. We don't have time or the inclination to sweat the smaller stuff. We're mature and real, and lord knows we don't have time to throw our own temper tantrums when we've got kids doing it for us. We want you to be our refuge, our safe harbor and our grown-up playmate.

2. Great Sex

Speaking of playmates — our hormones have done a lot of things and the likelihood is that we're in our 40s or close to it, which means, gentlemen, that we're in our sexual prime. I don't know of one single mom who isn't looking to have her mind blown sexually. Most of us came out of sexually dissatisfying marriages and are ready to play, to explore, and to totally revel in our newfound freedom and glory. Don't you wanna be the guy at the receiving end of that?

3. No Biological Clock Ticking At You

I hear this from guys all the time: "If I date a woman in her 30s, she wants to know where it's going and when we're getting married and having babies within, like, 3 months! But if I date a woman in her 20s we have nothing in common." Well, guys, here we are! You're looking at an amazing array of women whose biological clocks have ticked and tocked and likely don't want or need more babies. Have at us! Yes, we have children, but guess what? You're not gonna meet them unless this gets serious. So, if you fall in love with us, you're gonna have to be willing to take on all that that means, but in the meantime, we just wanna have fun.

4. We Are Powerhouses

I personally believe that single moms are some of the most powerful women on earth. We have stood strong while everything around us crumbled, whether we made that call or not. We have picked ourselves up by our bootstraps and made something of and for our children and ourselves. Oh — and we gave birth. Let's not forget that little tidbit. If you're looking for a woman you can respect and honor, you'll find her in the single mothers pool.

5. No Whining, No Games

Look, we may call you out when we feel you're not satisfying us or living up to our expectations, and yeah, we're human and we're women, so you won't always understand us, but we will never be whiners and over-complainers. We have children who do that to us all day. At the end of the day, we want a glass of wine and a grown-up conversation. We're not about to play games, either. We want clear communication and we'll give it back to you in spades. The likelihood is that we'll set the stage for it, and you'll be so thrown for a loop you won't know what to do at first. But pretty soon, you'll breathe a huge sigh of relief and relax into the whole idea.



So, men, if you just can’t seem to find that sweet-spot of women to date that are awesome, smart, fun, sexually adventurous, won't pressure you or play games, give some single moms a try. We want partnership and love just as much as the next girl, but we won't use games and drama to get it, and we'll take a longer time before we start wanting "more." And we won't bite... unless you ask us to.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/15/dating-single-mom_n_4440690.html

Date single moms, brehs.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

I'd date a single mom and not because of what I read just now

 

[King Poetic]

stop reading after low drama when i saw we are all grown up and mature now and the killer 2 words lord knows

 

[Chill]

For some reason, I just can't bring myself to date a single mom. It just does not sit right with me.

 

[Remote]

LOL @ #2

Why are women constantly declaring shyt about themselves?

From the day they were 12 years old and took some health/Sex Ed class and they hear that women develop faster than men. So suddenly every 12 year old girl starts to look at 12 year old boys like they aint shyt because they believe they're above and beyond.

Then they get older and now proudly throw out this sexual prime shyt in your face in their late 30s and early 40s.
Just constant patting themselves on the back.

And nobody says a thing.
Cuz we wanna fukk them.

I just get this look like...

 

[Michael's Black Son]

LOL @ this single mom advocacy pamphlet

and LOL @ low drama when you see tons of these chicks slapping up their bad ass kids and yelling at them like maniacs. Then these chicks will turn around and try to talk "down" to you like you're their fukking son. No thanks ma'am.

 

[Larry Lobster]

Only if she throw the kid at the bushes

 

[cleanface coney]

i could understand a nikka not wanting to date a broad his age witta baby

but its some sexy ass older mommas out here that love young nikkas

and not all of em tryna trap ya ass either

 

[BLAZO da GAWD]

FOH

 

[Remote]

i could understand a nikka not wanting to date a broad his age witta baby

but its some sexy ass older mommas out here that love young nikkas

and not all of em tryna trap ya ass either

You about that MILF Hunter life, aint you breh?

 

[cleanface coney]

You about that MILF Hunter life, aint you breh?

i hit a couple before

i guess it all depends on how you look at it

never has a woman tried to trap me....put a baby on me.... nor involve me in any bd drama

honestly...i think older broads tend to let you control the situation moreso than a young broad

but i guess thats depends on the dude and the woman

 

[NSSVO]

Not right now... just now right now.

 

[Rawtid]

I'd date a single mom and not because of what I read just now

Do it for the fruit snacks. I buy them in bulk.

 

[LionofJudah]

bytch says 'my kid's dad rocks', yet somehow she's not with him?

 

[Emperor Sol]

Many single mothers are demons, explaining why they became single mothers to begin with.

If your child's father "rocks" (as you claim), why aren't you still with him? Surely your advanced age and wisdom would suggest that this man is more than worthy of being by your side

If you're supposedly all grown up, why weren't you mature enough to choose the right mate to begin with? Verily, if you're old/mature enough to be procreating you're old enough to make sensible choices in mates

If sex with you is so great, why do you need to convince men to have sex with you by writing articles like this?

Oh, and surely you can't believe your reproductive organs will immediately stop functioning just because that's the usual process for most women. After all, I know women in their 40s who have had perfectly healthy children. Surely someone as "mature" as you would know that generalities don't necessitate absolute truths.

If you're so powerful, why are you not able to command the respect of good men everywhere to sweep you off your feet as quickly as they possibly can? After all, conventional wisdom tells us that men love "powerful", "confident" and "independent" women such as yourselves. Knowing this, I wonder why it is that men aren't flocking to you from all ends of the earth..

As for no whining....