6 weeks left before my wedding I feel anxious breh

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I don't like being the center of attention breh, thinking about the event make me anxious i'm scared of making a fool of myself in front of people i don't really know and i never danced in my life, i got six weeks to prepare myself for humiliation:whoo:Married brehs how did you prepare yourself mentally for the big event ?
 

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dude u dont have to do anything - u might have to give a small speech at the beginning of th reception...

just say "ill keep this short cause i know everyone wants to dance - thanks for coming out and sharing this day with us, we sincereyly appreciated every single one of u being here today.. lets have sme fun"

as far as dancing the only time u will have to dance infront of others is the first dance.... and u can just chose a slow song... and also u can tell some other people like ur guys parents and little kids to come dance too, to take the attention off you.. god luck breh
 

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dude u dont have to do anything - u might have to give a small speech at the beginning of th reception...

just say "ill keep this short cause i know everyone wants to dance - thanks for coming out and sharing this day with us, we sincereyly appreciated every single one of u being here today.. lets have sme fun"

as far as dancing the only time u will have to dance infront of others is the first dance.... and u can just chose a slow song... and also u can tell some other people like ur guys parents and little kids to come dance too, to take the attention off you.. god luck breh

I know but for people with social anxiety, making a short speech in front of a crowd is a big deal, so i can't imagine going through all the event, dancing is the most scary part. even if me and my girl have practice for a few times, i feel like i'm going to make some dumb mistake and fall:wow:
 

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Get married, brehs :ufdup:

But nah, hope you two have a happy union, butterflies in your stomach's a normal feeling :yeshrug:
 
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stop b*tchin'


Don't do some shyt you ain't comfortable with.. do yourself a favor don't lie to your woman ( at least not about simple/dumb shyt like this)
tell your woman you can't dance maybe you can learn an easy line dance or do some really simple two step with your people
 

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U marrying her without knowing her side of the family/friends :patrice:



Meanwhile your fiancée feeling cool as a cucumber cause she getting her back blown out while you're at work

you sound like a full fledged fakkit broski on gang

this nikka say he anxious to sign his life over to some bytch that been fukkin and gone keep fukkin

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

silly human

Coli delivers again :russ:

Obligatory: get married brehs
 

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You have literally NOTHING to do aside from stand there without passing out from fear. As far as dancing, wife and I basically just did a little two-step in a circle while holding one another.

Breh, the only preparation I did was to go to work, read, and make sure my reservations for the honeymoon were straight along with our move-in costs for the apartment we'd live in.​
 

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I know but for people with social anxiety, making a short speech in front of a crowd is a big deal, so i can't imagine going through all the event, dancing is the most scary part. even if me and my girl have practice for a few times, i feel like i'm going to make some dumb mistake and fall:wow:

man people who get scared for a litle speech like that dont prepare properly... practice, practice, practice...

practice until the point where ur 17 second speech is ingrained in your head.... literally it just has too be 17 seconds... but the reason people stumble at public speaking is cause they dont prepare yourself...

in terms of dancing... dude u dont have to even dance... hold your girl and just move back and forth to etta james at last... i can understand the speech thing but the dance thing ur just trippin on... if you can walk and stand u can slow dance holding ur girl.. stop tripping over non-existant shyt and practice ur speech
 
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