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It is definitely important. VITALLY important.
 

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Man, this thread reminds me when I was working as a host at a restaurant, it was summer time and anyone who's worked in food service knows that summer time is the GOAT season because hot chicks be dressing like thots again and coming out in droves.

There was this hot ass chick in a blue dress that came in and man the ass was super fat. I told my boy make sure I'm up front when she dips I'm trying to get my creep life on. So anyway I'm working and at some point realize I must've miss my chance to scope her out again cuz mad time went by and figured she left so I was smh. Went back up front and who do I see leaving but that blonde with the fat ass in the blue dress. She grabbed my bicep as she was walking by and told me to have a good night.

That's the whole story lol/smh. :yeshrug:

Now I know you coli brehs prob would've smashed her on the closest table but all it was for me was a nice lil ego boost. Don't slack on arm days brehs.
 

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:jbhmm: I wouldn't say that because to say something like that would be to imply that a man is LESS THAN because of the lack of a woman, and I don't feel that way

to me, it's just the opposite

the man should stand alone, hold it down in his life, and be on top of his game (or at least working towards it) and then whatever woman comes into your life, should be there to help enhance the happiness and satisfaction that you already have

emphasis on THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE

with that being said, like I said before.... it doesn't happen to me ALL THE TIME... cause I'm not around a bunch of ppl like that all the time

but when I see a woman that I know, it happens

the last time it happened was this 50 something yr old professional, who I happened to go by her job (a nursing home) and she came out to talk to me. I honestly didn't remember who she was, and she came up to me and started chatting it up, making a lot of physical contact

at first I was :patrice: cause of her age, like, nah...... she ain't tryna flirt

but then I thought about it :jbhmm: and a lot of these 50 yr old chics like younger men... and after replaying it in my head (she touched me at least 3 or 4 times), Im convinced she was flirting

:yeshrug: but again, this thread ain't to take shots on nobody if it doesn't happen to you or anything. I was just wondering if I'm the only one with this experience

Appreciate the mature response. For me, I can't say that it never happened, but I can't recall any specific instances that it happened. Some women are touchy feely which doesn't necessarily bother me.

I posed the question because it seems like some people like to assign fault or some type of deficiency towards dudes who don't experience certain things with women.

I just know that these days, it is important for me to know who I am dealing with and to keep my hands to myself, unless invited to use them on someone. My rules are less strict with women, but I guess it also depends on the woman.

Good response from you, man! #dapped
 

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Women touch my arms cuz their big.
Happens alot actually

I don't really care tho, not gonna make anything more out of it than it is
 

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400 Year Survivors Of American Slavery.
they been doing it at work now feeling on my arm whenever they pass. this one girl was play fighting with this guy and she grabs my arm and puts it across her breasts saying Hold me back! Hold me back
:noah:
I went to shake a female coworkers hand and she wrapped a hug around me real quick. i was lowkey like Oof when her shoulder hit my stomach lol...she looks like a young ashanti too
:noah:

op is definitely right its a sign of being chosen. it used to throw me off but now its comforting and makes the work day more positive to know sistas like me like that.

im not about to smash no coworkers though thats dead. getting touched on all the times kinda motivates you to stay shape so they can have more muscles to rub on.
 
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