Mental illness.
A lot of women feel as though they don’t measure up because they are listening to people who do nothing but rate women’s looks and judge us based on our physical attributes.
Being your best self is the best we can all do, but some people think they have to enhance to ridiculous levels so they can attract men/people who may not have wanted them.
Common sense: If a man likes a woman with a phatty and you’re naturally flat, rock with the men who rock with you.
Insecure/mentally ill: If a man likes a woman with a phatty and you’re naturally flat, go to the plastic surgeon and get your body carved up to attract the men who didn’t want you 10 months ago.