enjoy the moment. i have no problem doing some cuddling after sex. i just don't like it when i wake up and we're still hugged up because i always wake up first and then the girl is probably sleeping on one of my arms and i've lost feeling because my arm is in an awkward position and buried somewhere under her head. then you're trying to get out of the bed either without waking her up or sometimes you want to girl to wake up because it's your house and you want to get on with the rest of your day and not have to entertain her. that morning after, i tell ya. there have only been a few cases where i've enjoyed my morning after and they only happen when the girl is over my place, never when i'm over another girl's random spot. granted, i've only had this luck with one-nighters but it's enough to make me not want to go over a girl's house for a one-nighter. i feel trapped and at her whim.
but cuddling can be okay. it depends...