A lot of People's whole life Purpose is to Revenge and Prove they're WORTHY to People from School and their hometown.

[Stuntone]

A lot of people are scarred from School Days. Especially a lot of the non-popular, average and below students. A lot of people feel slighted. Couldn't get the dates they wanted. Didn't have the clothing they desired. Many were teased, bullied and made to feel lesser than. I think a lot of us have used this to drive our success, but at a certain point it's damn near an obsession.

I see it a lot with women. I've done a lot of dating, a lot. And I've realized a lot of women are looking for a man to shyt on other women with. Not really concern with the man's personality, just does he have what it takes to make other women jealous. If you begin dating a woman and she wants to flaunt you all around town and to her spots, she probably just wants to use you to shyt on other women. And you can just look at their IG pages, usually is just flaunting their "success."

All and all, I think we're all are effect from school days, positive and negative. But for some people it can be consider trauma and may need therapy.

 

[Stuntone]

I'd even say a lot of this "I'm not Settling" is part of this. A lot of average women are hell bent of getting a top tier man to prove their top tier also. And to accept an average man on her level, its acceptance that maybe she is average or below just the way their school mates treated them.

 

[levitate]

Sounds like you’re projecting and a little jealous that some of your friends from high school are doing well according to their pictures and posts on Facebook?

 

[Stuntone]

Sounds like you’re projecting and a little jealous that some of your friends from high school are doing well according to their pictures and posts on Facebook?

I'm one of the most successful people from my high school and I was popular.


I did say I think we all were affected by high school, more some than others. But I don't feel a need to prove anything, I've always had pretty girls.

 

[levitate]

I'm one of the most successful people from my high school and I was popular.


I did say I think we all were affected by high school, more some than others. But I don't feel a need to prove anything, I've always had pretty girls.

My bad, Stunt…

 

[Ahadi]

Bullying molds a lot of people.

 

[LadyJ2]

Telling a woman she is average is like telling her she should just give up and die. Very hard pill to swallow.

Especially in a modern, technological society where women can see now more than ever how much better other women live.

 

[Stuntone]

Bullying molds a lot of people.

So true.

As teens we don't know the long-term traumas and insecurities we cause to others with bullying and teasing.


As the same time, we should realize that is happenings and shouldn't be taken to heart. But easier said than done.

 

[africngiant]

me


id rather be motivated than be lazy

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

I'm definitely a late bloomer. Was 1st team all conference in football and a team captain in high school. Had a decent amount of friends. But had no dating life. Didn't date or kiss a girl until my junior year of college.

I was uglygang and used to get made fun of by girls in high school. Now I get chose and my ego gets boosted daily. But I love myself for me, not for the validation. This is enough for me. No need for revenge

 

[africngiant]

I'm definitely a late bloomer. Was 1st team all conference in football and a team captain in high school. Had a decent amount of friends. But had no dating life. Didn't date or kiss a girl until my junior year of college.

I was uglygang and used to get made fun of by girls in high school. Now I get chose and my ego gets boosted daily. But I love myself for me, not for the validation. This is enough for me. No need for revenge

the pain is crazy. at least you had football. ive been hated on so much i get one ounce of love then i realize how deprived and battered my soul is from it

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

the pain is crazy. at least you had football. ive been hated on so much i get one ounce of love then i realize how deprived and battered my soul is from it

You will win in the end bro trust me

 

[JNew]

Yeah but that’s kinda what’s school is for to prepare you for the “system”. Spend you whole life working until retirement. It’s tricks you into believing you are more important because…..

This thinking is passed down unintentionally.



You watch movies that take place before “Christ” or whatever. (Like gladiator or old roman movies) When people lived miles away from each other and lived off the land.

In the modern world the school system is the only real way to get ahead but it breads narcissism.

I went to college do get a degree at 26 by the time i was out at 29. I realized I was maybe a little more intelligent and could understand things easier but I was so much more insecure, pessimistic and entitled because I had a degree.

That’s was really just the beginning. Once in the work force with a degree, I noticed how toxic 90% of the people are at every level.

 

[Complexion]

Everybody is broken. A few people realize this. The rest think they can (insert something that won't work but provides a lifelong distraction - like chasing the tale of money or fame) to find a solution and set off on a pointless quest when all they really seek is Self acceptance and the nurturing they didn't get as a jit.

Worse part is this unprocessed pain leaps from one generation to the next when left unchecked and without introspection. That is why the world is how it is but those who know, know and keep quiet because it makes tills ring, pills grim and provides an endless source of conflict based on projections...

The Difference Between a Hero and a Coward

Nobody is born phenomenal, we don’t start at the peak. Its a point that we meet after years of endurance, tests and often life getting the best of us in these attacks. Sometimes they come on all fr…

willhelp.me

"A diamond in the flesh.

And all of this is because you, like them, started as coal as well but took the punishment and never gave in or ceded your will to keep progressing up the hill of self directed evolution and the end result was nothing short of alchemical as you flipped what was soft, opaque and abundant into something hard, brilliant and rare but as the Warrior knows in his Soul, the fight doesn’t end there because now the next layer kicks in and this one is purely non physical where you in effect give birth to yourself to escape, forever, from this Game of Souls and it repeated life sentences but that is another topic."

 

[JNew]

the pain is crazy. at least you had football. ive been hated on so much i get one ounce of love then i realize how deprived and battered my soul is from it

Wow mane that hit me hard.