A woman that rejected me 12 years ago seems to now be interested in dating me, is this something I should pursue?

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Give her the same energy she gave you 12 years ago.

We up over here... aint got no time to look back and spin the block.
 

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Damn I forgot all about this dude thecoli used to love him.
 

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I'd go. Coffee date, catch up, and another chance to show her she messed up. Be as courteous and charming as possible, say your goodbyes, and if she hits you up again tell her you would like to just be friends. She'll get the message.

BTW....coffee date. I assume these are white people and it's just another example that coffee dates are acceptable, so stop letting bloated loud mouth chicks on twitter convince you that women will not go on a coffee date. If she likes you (or if you're a white man) she will agree to it. I'm not saying never go to a nice restaurant, but for a quick get-to-know-you vibe a coffee meet up is perfect.


This is cool but at some point some people don't deserve access to you.

You've leveled up and they've dropped down in status. I wouldn't even answer her calls or have any association with her.
 

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This is cool but at some point some people don't deserve access to you.

You've leveled up and they've dropped down in status. I wouldn't even answer her calls or have any association with her.
^^ this is what I mean. I think this would be the normal reaction to someone from the past popping up with baggage. Just ignore lol
 

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I would hit it and just casually date her without taking her seriously or limiting my other options.

Casually dating women who are in their mid 30s and higher is a dangerous sport because even though you see her ONE WAY, she likely sees you as husband material and wants a future with you. Just being involved with her, she will do everything to make sure you stick around and try to change your mind even if you make it clear you want nothing more than sex. If you get her pregnant, she's probably keeping it.

Once you level up, you're better off only fukking with a certain level of chicks.

I've fukked with women casually in their 30s and 40s but they are HEAVILY vetted to the point where I can completely trust them.
 

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you got me confused with someone else. I don’t make gay threads :skip:
@ItWasMeThough why you aint @ him? @Brolic is just holding it down for brothas who better than everyone else and got a degree and an investment portfolio. We playthe long game and he reminding us not to lose sight over short sighted women. :russ: :mjlol::troll:
 
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