A woman w/a male best friend

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No red pill shyt

Let’s say ya ol lady got a male best friend, they’ve known each other since youngins. At one point let’s say around early 20s they were both single, and “thought about” getting together, but didn’t for whatever reason.

Would y’all be trippen off the fact they supposedly found each other attractive, didn’t necessarily date or fukk. But still got that friendship thing going, talk on a semi regular basis etc. Or would you be secure in that you the one who’s with her know, Fcking her etc
 

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No red pill shyt

Let’s say ya ol lady got a male best friend, they’ve known each other since youngins. At one point let’s say around early 20s they were both single, and “thought about” getting together, but didn’t for whatever reason.

Would y’all be trippen off the fact they supposedly found each other attractive, didn’t necessarily date or fukk. But still got that friendship thing going, talk on a semi regular basis etc. Or would you be secure in that you the one who’s with her know, Fcking her etc
Yup. Especially if they be spending time together without YOU :francis:

Dirty mackin 101
 

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Leave her alone with another fool and her Best Friend if you seek to be exclusive. Ask yourself the inverse, do you think she would be fine with you having a beautiful female BF? If not, then she is the fool herself.

Who do you think will hear about all of your mistakes, all of your problems you share with her, all of her complaints about you? 99.9% of the time that male BF is looking for a way to get her. No matter what she says about him, you should know as a male what his most likely true intentions are, and they are definitely not about helping you to maintain a healthy relationship with her. So the solution to that is to just leave her alone and find you some other Lady.

Don't live your life with a relationship scarcity mindset.
 
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I used to be the "male best friend", all I'll say is Don't Trust These bytches

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I'm fukken a chick I've known since elementary
and she be telling her boyfriend im just her homie. She legit got pissed at him for not trusting her even though she is fukking me behind his back.
This is kinda my story except I legit have never been with any of my guy friends :whoa:
 

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Your girl is going to have male friends.
Same thing with you, you have definitely made friends with some chicks along the way.
If you think she went her whole life without ever being cool with a guy, you're an idiot.
Some dudes are permanently friendzoned, some aint.
Regardless, when your opposite sex friend is in a relationship, usually they will fall back some because their focus is on their SO
It's up to the friend to respect the relationship and fall back as well.
The friendship will not be harmed.

That's the on code way to do things.

The nikka shouldn't be calling frequently or vice versa.
They shouldn't be seeing each other frequently either.
If they do see each other, you should be invited or at the very least made aware right away.
No traveling together or no stupid shyt like that.
If her and her male friend are off code, let it be known.
If she pushes back, bush her.

shyt, there's even boundaries for her female friends.
If your girl wants to fukk around on you, she will.
But that doesn't mean you have to let it happen under your nose.
 

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I personally wouldn’t fukk with her but that’s me. I’m actually one of the few that does have women as friends and a woman for a best friend but I’m an exception, not the rule. She ain’t me, so I wouldn’t go for it. I’d leave her at homegirl status because I’m not cuffing a woman with a dude as a best friend.
 
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