[AGENDA] Why I Stopped Dating Black American Men When I Decided I Was Ready For Marriage

[Cadillac]

Didn’t read

all that's needed to be said

 

[reasonable_doubter]

Tell the
mom to let the father see the kid.

Also CDC says Black fathers are doing better than white fathers

the women commenting didnt even post facts...... the women in our community are not worth marrying... we literally have a single mom complaining about men not wanting to marry her............

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Wake me up when black people are talking shyt about cacs. No time for black-on-black thinkpieces.

 

[reasonable_doubter]

Clearly no one read this article. She was very compassionate. And the faux outrage is hilarious. On a site where GMB reigns, and dating foreign is championed, and y'all are upset with this article? She even held women accountable by saying if you have years of failed dating history the problem is YOU, and you need to introspect.

that has to do with men getting screwed over in marriage (remember 70% of divorces are initiated by women).... not a indictment on the men on this site wanting to not get married... sigh......

 

[Lifejennings]

that has to do with men getting screwed over in marriage (remember 70% of divorces are initiated by women).... not a indictment on the men on this site wanting to not get married... sigh......

How can you get screwed over if you have little to no wealth in the first place. The desire for marriage is just not there. There's nothing wrong with admitting that.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

I bet she's still single though.

You know she is
She wrote a whole bunch or nothing tbh

 

[Taadow]

Frankly, I don't see the problem with what she said overall.

 

[reasonable_doubter]

How can you get screwed over if you have little to no wealth in the first place. The desire for marriage is just not there. There's nothing wrong with admitting that.

actually read what happens to average men after they divorce....

example:



Of course not... you live in a post-industrialized country... marriage is for children..... and in a society where you do not need them the need for marriage fades.... i.e. america's 50% divorce rates... even some west african groups have divorce rates hovering around 55% when they live in america...... Look at the rates for wanting to get married for millennials...... both male and female, it isnt there....


Admitting it is one the thing... but there is never a reason given behind it..... ^^^^your types dont dig deep

 

[dem bath salts]

Nikkas conditioning got conditioning.

 

[AB Ziggy]

She is West African, she doesn't have to date a black American to begin with. All she's doing is coming back home.

This whole rant she's made is nothing more than a shade at AA dudes as usual.

 

[BlackMajik]

IF U DON'T LIKE US BLACK AMERICAN MEN GET THE fukk AWAY FROM US!

DON'T TALK ABOUT US, DON'T THINK ABOUT US, GET OFF OUR FORUMS!!!

 

[chowism]

It's been mentioned plenty of times on here that American black women aren't marriageable. This woman said the same thing, but in reverse. She also said she would date within her race, but not inside her nationality. Y all full of shyt on here. Run your mouths all day about American black women, but when they say something to the contrary, it's an issue. how are you "Get married, brehs" all day and get upset when someone doesn't want to marry you. You didn't want to be married anyway.

 

[BlackMajik]

Married black women in comparison to other races. If we are least likely to be married and least likely to date out...

It makes sense when a black woman says she’s going to expand options because she wants marriage.

Stop this lie..It's least likely to MARRY out

 

[NZA]

i actually wouldnt have a big problem with this if this was a true AA sister. the AA family is fukked up and relations between the sexes are pretty depressing at times, but she is a child of an african immigrant. she is making AA men a strawman. she should have already been dating all those nigerians in texas that i hear about

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

She is West African, she doesn't have to date a black American to begin with. All she's doing is coming back home.

This whole rant she's made is nothing more than a shade at AA dudes as usual.

I think she’s just bitter because her baby daddy (who is AA and not a cac.) is no longer in her and her sons life.