[AGENDA] Why I Stopped Dating Black American Men When I Decided I Was Ready For Marriage

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:russ: she didn’t even say that. She actually didn’t shyt on black men at all and pointed a lot of blame to herself and got therapy. Y’all read a line, got emotional and took it out of context. You can tell who didn’t read it.

The whole article is an underhanded swipe at black American men. And why was this lady only ready for marriage after she already had a child?
 

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Oh the irony! LMAO! So when Trick Daddy was telling blk women they was gonna be replaced, or when foreign gang was outchea traveling to Middle Earth for non-blk bytches, or when blk dudes was talking about GMB, and PAWGing, it was none of this energy. Where are those blk dudes who were bragging about blk women not having those options?

But a blk chick says six years ago to date Asian dudes and an African chick literally agrees with GMB and foreign gangs and all of a sudden...blk women evil.
:pachaha::whoo:
This shyt is only the tip of the iceberg. Just wait until dark skin blk chicks start making PSA announcements in the media about how they don't like dark skinned blk men even tho they got the same skin tones. Then when blk men complain they gon say "preference" or "it's only ugly dark dudes complaining". Wait until blk chicks start banning blk dudes from clubs. When you look at a tv show or a music video and it's nothing but blk women and racially ambiguous dudes and non-blk dudes. (I.e. A Wrinkle in Time).

But on the real, ya'll should be happy. She's just agreeing with y'all when you talk about all that American women ain't marriage material and foreign gang rah rah and they all single moms nonsense...only she's merely agreeing about the male side of the story.

Crazy part about all of this is that these chicks are taking the EXACT same pages out of the Tommy Sotomayor and Sargent Willie Pete anti-blk woman playbooks.

It's crazy for people not to recognize the similarities in patterns and stuff. It's the same ingredients. :sas2::troll:

Next, blk chicks gon start moving the racial goal post to include Armenian dudes into the blk race like dudes was tryin to do with Kim Kardashian.

It's HILARIOUS to watch blk men and blk women try and use dating other races as ammunition against each other instead of learning how to communicate with one another.
Instead blks trying to court each other by humbling one another.

Blk men: "I'm the prize. Nobody else wants you. You're the least desirable you hair hat dark butt. And if I cheat you better accept it b/c u ain't got no options!"

Blk women: "I'm educated! You're broke and got nothing to offer a woman except dikk! I've got too much going for myself to let you bring me down."

When you add the socially awkward invisibles to this mix...its even spicier! B/c them jokers ain't even GOT dating experience but they just living based off what they see and hear on the internet and taking pot shots as they go!

It's a race to the bottom! Next time on: Imaginary Internet Gender Wars

:leon: you sure had a lot to say about this
 

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Well what do you mean by this then, "As far as BM being marrying material...hmmm I have a complicated opinion on that."

:jbhmm: If Black men aren't marriage material I assume your messing with white men, no?
Again, you are projecting. I haven't even started my opinion and you are trying to jump down my throat because of your assumptions.
 

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Oh the irony! LMAO! So when Trick Daddy was telling blk women they was gonna be replaced, or when foreign gang was outchea traveling to Middle Earth for non-blk bytches, or when blk dudes was talking about GMB, and PAWGing, it was none of this energy. Where are those blk dudes who were bragging about blk women not having those options?

But a blk chick says six years ago to date Asian dudes and an African chick literally agrees with GMB and foreign gangs and all of a sudden...blk women evil.
:pachaha::whoo:
This shyt is only the tip of the iceberg. Just wait until dark skin blk chicks start making PSA announcements in the media about how they don't like dark skinned blk men even tho they got the same skin tones. Then when blk men complain they gon say "preference" or "it's only ugly dark dudes complaining". Wait until blk chicks start banning blk dudes from clubs. When you look at a tv show or a music video and it's nothing but blk women and racially ambiguous dudes and non-blk dudes. (I.e. A Wrinkle in Time).

But on the real, ya'll should be happy. She's just agreeing with y'all when you talk about all that American women ain't marriage material and foreign gang rah rah and they all single moms nonsense...only she's merely agreeing about the male side of the story.

Crazy part about all of this is that these chicks are taking the EXACT same pages out of the Tommy Sotomayor and Sargent Willie Pete anti-blk woman playbooks.

It's crazy for people not to recognize the similarities in patterns and stuff. It's the same ingredients. :sas2::troll:

Next, blk chicks gon start moving the racial goal post to include Armenian dudes into the blk race like dudes was tryin to do with Kim Kardashian.

It's HILARIOUS to watch blk men and blk women try and use dating other races as ammunition against each other instead of learning how to communicate with one another.
Instead blks trying to court each other by humbling one another.

Blk men: "I'm the prize. Nobody else wants you. You're the least desirable you hair hat dark butt. And if I cheat you better accept it b/c u ain't got no options!"

Blk women: "I'm educated! You're broke and got nothing to offer a woman except dikk! I've got too much going for myself to let you bring me down."

When you add the socially awkward invisibles to this mix...its even spicier! B/c them jokers ain't even GOT dating experience but they just living based off what they see and hear on the internet and taking pot shots as they go!

It's a race to the bottom! Next time on: Imaginary Internet Gender Wars
:mjlol: thecoli.com in an nutshell. Most of the dudes that claim they're black on here ain't anyway :picard:
 

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Again, you are projecting. I haven't even started my opinion and you are trying to jump down my throat because of your assumptions.
Smh, alright. So what is your opinion?

I might be assuming but if you said Black Men are not marriage material how you expect me to feel about that as a Black Man. It's either you're marrying a white boy or you are one of those people who don't believe in marriage.
 

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Black men: No one cares about a woman's degrees, education or high paying jobs. That doesn't make them a good spouse! She's fat and her gums are black, no black man is checking for that anyway.

Also Black men: School is a scam, I'm glad I never went.

Black men again: I can't find a decent paying job, these white boys getting paid more than me and have less talent! How do you expect me to be a provider, these are white people standards!


Black women: :mjpls:

You just having fun out here with this bullshyt
 

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