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:to: shyt hurt brehs but she wants something that I couldnt give her at this time so she found someone that could. We been in and out each other lives for almost 4 years. We met back in 08 during a rough time in our lives and we connected. Seriously it was like finding a piece of yourself that you lost in another life that you wasnt even looking for. She lived in PA and we would visit each other for the weekend whenever we could. shyt was perfect brehs, we wasnt together but we shared something wonderful every time we would meet.

She's a wonderful woman, my mom and dad loves her, she even gave the kid some dough when i wasnt working until my unemployment kicked in and told me I could live with her and start over in PA. We knew each other for 4 years but yet I couldnt bring myself to say yes. I told her I couldnt and she laughed. Saying this must be pay back for last time when she should have said yes and I told her no, its just I have a lot on my plate and I wanna clean my plate. Back in 09 I asked her to be my girlfriend and she explained to me why she couldnt and I understood the reason, she was still recovering from the last relationship. Unfortunately now its the same thing with me

This happen month and some change ago and now I just seen her pic on facebook with another dude saying in a relationship :damn::dead::why:. I was gonna call on some drake shyt but...I couldnt. I'm just gonna let this burn for Allah only knows how long. Seems I just been taking L all this fall :skip:



Hmmm..... so just over a month ago she was ready to make some sort of lifelong commitment to you and then bang shes already in a relationship....

either she was already talking to dude while she was talking to you

or

she wasnt that much into you to be able to move on so quickly.... the fact that she didnt want to be with you originally because she was trying to get over someone else tells me a lot.....


you probably dodged a bullet but you cant see it yet
 

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Breh I see it like this. If you really want to be with her then you would make the lifestyle changes necessary and take that step. But the fact that you still want to do you and then get upset when she moves on just shows that you are selfish in regards to the situation.

Think long and hard about this breh, is messing with all these scalawags necessary if she is your one true love? Because right now she is just dating another nikka, next its going to be her having a child with another nikka and marrying another nikka. If you don't nip this shyt in the bud now, this shyt will go on for years.

So either man up and become the man you want to be for you and her, or just drop all feeling for her now and let it burn breh.
 

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Reading all the L's y'all nikkas take always brighten up my day...

keep em coming
 

Mr Hate Coffee

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:to: That was so poetic breh...

:rudy: YO man up! Chicks aren't god damned unicorns. Move on, you'll find another.

:aicmon:

:ohhh: This is real shyt. Sometimes you need someone to say it to you blunt.

ahhh the self inflicted guilt trip...i've been there before..best thing is to try to avoid those situations or cut em off early.

Its terrible breh. Still fukks with me to this day. :future:

Reading all the L's y'all nikkas take always brighten up my day...

keep em coming


:laff: Not to this extreme, but reading shyt like this gives me perspective when it comes to my own relationship issues.
 
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