And this is the problem right here. These simps don’t stop.

Crude

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Men give to much energy to women they have no chance to sleep with.

Most of the time women want your attention and validation more than they want you.

You give away all your power as a man when you start giving attention and gifts unsolicited and undeserved. What’s not earned is not appreciated.
 

LadyJ2

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Do women really ask men to buy specific things? How is that gift-giving? “Buy me this purse. Buy me these earrings.” How does he get to know whether he knows/understands you without just letting him make the choice?

I’ve never asked my husband to purchase anything specific, ever. He just pays attention and is usually right on point. The best is when he buys me something I didn’t even realize I needed. That is A1. 💕

I haven’t dated in a loooong time so I am truly dumbfounded. Ladies, y’all ask men to buy you specific things? Is that a test or something?
 

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Men give to much energy to women they have no chance to sleep with.

Most of the time women want your attention and validation more than they want you.

You give away all your power as a man when you start giving attention and gifts unsolicited and undeserved. What’s not earned is not appreciated.

what exactly do you think courting in the past entailed? dudes were out-gifting each other trying to get the attention of a girl.

writing letters back and forth for months and it might not come to nothin.:mjlol:

it's way easier to find out where you stand today.
 
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