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Do men agree with you?
More often than not, I’ve seen chicks with a more balanced perspective wifed up and/or happier than those who care too much about what others think to live their lives on their own terms. I think it’s about personal growth and autonomy. Those who don’t probably aren’t worth much anyway.:yeshrug:
 

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The collective of American Men & women today deserve each other. All this gender war, whiny bullshyt, think pieces from both sides are just folk who won't do what it takes, to get what they want, where they at. So they blame culture, modernity, gender roles, entertainment, the gov etc... Americans are so lazy they won't even work to find a mate.

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Part of that work is doing whats best for yourself, whatever the fukk that means.
The complaining business is a highly lucrative market
 

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More often than not, I’ve seen chicks with a more balanced perspective wifed up and/or happier than those who care too much about what others think to live their lives on their own terms. I think it’s about personal growth and autonomy. Those who don’t probably aren’t worth much anyway.:yeshrug:
I think this is a false dichotomy. I'm pushing back bc bw have been doing this for quite a while now, not giving a fukk what nobody think. Iirc, it's a tenet of 3rd or 4th wave feminism. We now have a community of Lizzos and aunties twerking on tabletops over ppl scampi who very much should care what ppl think.
Maybe it's time for something new...? :ld:
 

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I think this is a false dichotomy. I'm pushing back bc bw have been doing this for quite a while now, not giving a fukk what nobody think. Iirc, it's a tenet of 3rd or 4th wave feminism. We now have a community of Lizzos and aunties twerking on tabletops over ppl scampi who very much should care what ppl think.
Maybe it's time for something new...? :ld:
Nah I disagree. They have a facade that they don’t care but they absolutely do. (In fact Lizzo wouldn’t be crying every other second if she truly was with it) And what’s more, they care too much about what the wrong people think. Same chick who can roll her eyes and threaten to “blank on me” for taking her son’s cell phone for using it during class…is also the same chick that can’t seem to find that same energy to tell that bum to get off her couch, or say “NOPE” when a sorry dude is pressing her for sex if she doesn’t want it.
A lotta Blk women are hyper aware AND sensitive to EVERYTHING. Same chick pretending to be “strong” cares so much about what others think about her hair, that she wearing somebody else’s hair on her head.

Blk women need to give the middle finger to the world. Stop advocating for everybody else and playing passive support roles in other people’s lives. Stop worrying about whether they gon call you a hoe b/c they are going to do it anyway. Stop worrying about trying to live up or down to other’s standards. Get the users out of your life and only be down for those whose actions demonstrate love for them.

Twerk. Get educated. Stack money. Stop giving babies to bums (edit: of all races). Have fun. Laugh loud. Let the naps out. Enjoy dikk responsibly.

Many haven’t really come into this confidence until recently, and a shyt ton of blk women are making strides for themselves. I like it.:yeshrug:
Stop worrying about who gon hate you for your skin tone. Blk women are only starting to embrace true freedom and empowerment. When they do what’s best for them outside of others expectations, then we’ll see real change.

But that takes worrying less about others and more about themselves. Right now a lotta blk women are all bark and no bite and people know it.:yeshrug: That’s the thing about “feminism” and equal rights and “empowerment”. You can’t say you down for it, if you don’t have the courage to stand in it.
 
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A lot of women (online) would be happier if they stopped trying to be on some fake bravado shyt. It's okay to feel weakness, it's okay to admit you want something. If you see the "wanting a relationship/value friendship" topic on twitter, you'll know what I'm saying.

Dudes be switching up on dudes more than women "switch" on women.

Proper community w/ people with therapy solves a lot of things, there is no one without the other.

Influencer culture ruined around a lot of hobbies, U got people who are passionate about something trying catch up to people who are masters at marketing but don't care for the hobby itself, all this ends up becoming is medicore content being spread. and at worst, grifting.
 
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He would have gotten a 2nd term if he'd have taken it seriously instead of letting his feelings take over. That hoax talk came back to bite him hard. Politically it was a moronic stance but he isn't a politician at heart so.......
It's ironic he won the presidency the same way he lost the presidency
 
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