any 30+ coli posters actually ever thought about being a bachelor for life :

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like if how you are living now has been the same for the last ten years, is there anything or anyone to change it or do you want to change it. i always wanted the wife its just cool but i have figured out i dont even want a girlfriend. i just want to work and strive towards my goals/dreams.

im simple, can you be honest with yourself and do you see "your ways" ever living sharing with someone else for life.

dont get me wrong i think all married men are the greatest only missing out on the top spot by the married fathers but now im thinking with life and the trife. could you make it on your own ? i know i can and im begining to think that thats because i want to.

how you feel on this serious new rise of the promotion of the single life.
 
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Willstyles said:
It's all cool until you're like 50 reaching 60 with no one there but young ass women that want your money... I gonna be married before I hit 40. I been single for a good portion of my 20s and early 30s.
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thats how i see it too, no one wants to be 50 or 60 by themselves. but really want would be the difference in an internet driven modern convenient cosmopolitan city. its easier to be on your own now.

the way i see it is, if it happens great if it doesnt i can say i am/lived a happy satisfying life.
 
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BaldingSoHard said:
I'm 38 and I go back and forth.

On one hand, it would be great to have a partner to build with.

On the other hand, all of my brehs who are married with kids tell me :whoa: and don't do it.
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they really saying that just to give life its evens, im sure they are thrilled they have loving kids and a partner. i just think some men dont need it but then again the older you get (they used to be peer pressure especially on women to get hitched) right now unless im unsuccessful at my endevours i can handle being single for a long time.

a good black woman where im from is hard to find, you need to be indoctrined into the "manor" ways. they want right now results and shyt, so is that really someone you love or just lust and settling.

im with you back and forth, but more forth like im not even caring about being solo.
 
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BlackDiBiase said:
they really saying that just to give life its evens, im sure they are thrilled they have loving kids and a partner. i just think some men dont need it but then again the older you get (they used to be peer pressure especially on women to get hitched) right now unless im unsuccessful at my endevours i can handle being single for a long time.

a good black woman where im from is hard to find, you need to be indoctrined into the "manor" ways. they want right now results and shyt, so is that really someone you love or just lust and settling.

im with you back and forth, but more forth like im not even caring about being solo.
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yea breh exactly.

I already have everything I really need in life. Good health, decent wealth, freedom, etc... I guess I'm just looking for someone to share it all with but the problem is what if adding a partner fukks up the flow?

I just don't know.
 
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BlackDiBiase said:
thats how i see it too, no one wants to be 50 or 60 by themselves. but really want would be the difference in an internet driven modern convenient cosmopolitan city. its easier to be on your own now.

the way i see it is, if it happens great if it doesnt i can say i am/lived a happy satisfying life.
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yea I agree, it's not for everyone but I mean if that's he path you choose, don't expect an happier outcome
 
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