any grown up claiming a teenager "looks like an adult" is a pedophile or has pedo ideations

[Paper Boi]

someone in my extended family said this to me yesterday and I will never look at him the same again.

he about 10 years older than me which puts him in his 40s. he was like "she's 16? they didn't look like that when I was that age" that means nothing other than mf was lusting after a 16 year old. if you go back and look at people from the 80s/70s they looked OLDER than people from millenial/gen z/gen alpha whatever. anyone who claims otherwise just saying that to excuse their weird pedo pathology.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Report that man to HR and claim he grabbed yr butt as he was talking

Get $$$$

 

[Ducktales]

Facts . Every old man I have ever heard say this , I could tell that implied they would be willing to if the girl was down. Had a cousin say this to my little sisters best friend who was like 14. Never said a word to that nikka every again

 

[get these nets]

Number 1 reason for me adding dudes to ignore list is questionable comments they make about topics like this.
Your relative(extended fam) is a weirdo.

Ive heard women make comments like that about other women/girls but its usually about hormones/chemicals in modern food that makes people develop faster.

 

[The Dust King]

they didn't look like that when I was that age"

contextually though isnt the person referring to when they were that age too?

unless you think a 40 year old man is saying back in my day but imagining himself as a 40 year old man during his teen years?

i get what u sayin but think it can mean this too

*edit* since we are speaking about age and pedos and rape lets ask our resident professional @Still Benefited

 

[Silkk]

 

[Paper Boi]

contextually though isnt the person referring to when they were that age too?

unless you think a 40 year old man is saying back in my day but imagining himself as a 40 year old man during his teen years?

i get what u sayin but think it can mean this too

*edit* since we are speaking about age and pedos and rape lets ask our resident professional @Still Benefited

the thing is... she doesn't look "older than 16" tho even if he transported back to when he was 16 or whatever you thinking. she looked like a teenager to me. guy was just trying to justify whatever weird shyt was going on in his brain.

and i'm sorry for even posting this random ass topic here, but I am still trying to come to terms with how to tell my wife her cousin is most likely a mf pdf file

 

[Paper Boi]

lmao what year this from? there always been a few people who look older for their age. look at mf greg oden. but i guarantee when this dude who probably pushing 50 was in high school, people ACTUALLY looked way older than they do now. i live near a college campus, most the college students i see... look like kids to me. i would assume they were high schoolers if i didn't know i live near the school.

 

[Silkk]

lmao what year this from? there always been a few people who look older for their age. look at mf greg oden. but i guarantee when this dude who probably pushing 50 was in high school, people ACTUALLY looked way older than they do now. i live near a college campus, most the college students i see... look like kids to me. i would assume they were high schoolers if i didn't know i live near the school.

Like 2017-2018

 

[get these nets]

the thing is... she doesn't look "older than 16" tho even if he transported back to when he was 16 or whatever you thinking. she looked like a teenager to me. guy was just trying to justify whatever weird shyt was going on in his brain.

and i'm sorry for even posting this random ass topic here, but I am still trying to come to terms with how to tell my wife her cousin is most likely a mf pdf file

Her family knows who the weirdos are. And to keep them at arm's length. If he felt confortable saying that shyt to you, he's said shyt like to his actual blood male relatives before.

 

[Paper Boi]

Like 2017-2018

there always an exception but i still say go look at the rookies from 1985 or some shyt, they all look way older than todays rookies.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Right up @nairdas lane

 

[JadeB]

I love threads like these because folks often say that men don't hold each other accountable for predatory behavior and it's a shining example of men break that stereotype. Hold this rep, OP

 

[The ADD]

It’s indefensible. Can’t imagine analyzing a 16 year old girl and comparing her to 16 year olds from when I was a teen.

Young girls don’t look or carry themselves like a woman. I always thought anyone claiming they couldn’t tell the difference was making an excuse to lust after a minor.

 

[Starman]

It's disingenuous af to pretend a teen can't look like an adult. Or that an adult can't look like a teen.

I do think OP means well, though.