Anybody else have no luck at all with women
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DarkHorse23
Banned
Nah i got better things to do. I just find it funny someone like you is in my city.
m0rninggl0ry
All Star
nvm, lol
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
Unless you're tall and very handsome or just very handsome women won't respond to your random hollas
They want a nikka that they want to know
Gotta have a social circle And meet friends of friends and shyt
If you don't do that you're pretty fukked
And this is coming from a nikka who grew up with social anxiety wit no friends and as he got older got tandom hollering down to a science
Advice I got for you
I don't make new friends super easy but I am funny and can get attention
If you meet a super attractive chick and she wants to be friends...do it. You need to add to your social circle at this point
Focus on yourself and getting money...that's all I got. .
Answer may be you will be alone forever...just do whatever you want in life and be great
They want a nikka that they want to know
Gotta have a social circle And meet friends of friends and shyt
If you don't do that you're pretty fukked
And this is coming from a nikka who grew up with social anxiety wit no friends and as he got older got tandom hollering down to a science
Advice I got for you
I don't make new friends super easy but I am funny and can get attention
If you meet a super attractive chick and she wants to be friends...do it. You need to add to your social circle at this point
Focus on yourself and getting money...that's all I got. .
Answer may be you will be alone forever...just do whatever you want in life and be great
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Some people who don't know anything are gonna tell you that you're wrong but I know you made some good points.
Larry Lambo
Superstar
Some truth to that.
I used to bag chicks at the club on the random but that was from 98 - 2008. Internet dating changed the game and made it more difficult to successfully pull in the streets.
It's still doable, but it's pretty much relegated to basic brauds that don't get hollered at much. Any bad joint is gonna prefer dudes in her circle.
So if you just trying to rack up numbers, the clubs/bars/streets can still be fertile. But any chick on par with you is not gonna give you play in those scenarios.
Social circle is tough because the people that are "looking for friends" are usually have wack personalities or are dudes that are actually pretty cool but are lowkey and don't know attractive women.
It's like high school. It's hard to get into the "in crowd" and if you do, you may not actually like the people.
m0rninggl0ry
All Star
Sometimes
m0rninggl0ry
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SmoothOperator88
Your friendly neighborhood coli poster
Honestly, I don't really put myself out there. I used to when I was younger and much more socially awkward but after a lot of bad experiences and looking at myself in the mirror and understanding myself more, I've backed away. I attempt to date every so often but usually things don't end well, it fukks my up emotionally and negatively affects the other things going in my life like work and school.
Like I mentioned I'm socially awkward, I have very low self-esteem and haven't really experienced very little in the way of intimacy. Have a negative self-image in general and have gotten even more self conscious about it over recent years I'm chubby and have never been skinny or in great shape. I've grown a lot as a person over time. I've gotten to the point where I can be very friendly with women and and comfortable being things go wrong when there are any attempts to get close. I have a hard time with being close to people (anyone including my friends and family) and emotions. I'm hard on myself and overly realistic about my looks and my awkwardness. Also hasn't help that I was made fun of a lot in school my home life as far as my relationship with my family wasn't the greatest and I was molested when I was younger. I never learned to love myself I have a lot of good qualities I look at myself and say "Why would anyone want to be with me?" and I tend to get afraid when a woman does show interest or make the first move out of fear of being hurt or taken advantage of. It's weird because I know my worth and don't want to settle or smash just for the sake of smashing (the latter due a lot due to my fear of getting hurt) but at the same time I'm so hard and have such a pervasive negative self-image about myself.
As of now, I'm just trying to focus on my career and get better. I'm in a lot better place than I used to be, but I'm not there yet. And I know the issues I have with women are generally on me. I just don't want to be "forever alone."
Like I mentioned I'm socially awkward, I have very low self-esteem and haven't really experienced very little in the way of intimacy. Have a negative self-image in general and have gotten even more self conscious about it over recent years I'm chubby and have never been skinny or in great shape. I've grown a lot as a person over time. I've gotten to the point where I can be very friendly with women and and comfortable being things go wrong when there are any attempts to get close. I have a hard time with being close to people (anyone including my friends and family) and emotions. I'm hard on myself and overly realistic about my looks and my awkwardness. Also hasn't help that I was made fun of a lot in school my home life as far as my relationship with my family wasn't the greatest and I was molested when I was younger. I never learned to love myself I have a lot of good qualities I look at myself and say "Why would anyone want to be with me?" and I tend to get afraid when a woman does show interest or make the first move out of fear of being hurt or taken advantage of. It's weird because I know my worth and don't want to settle or smash just for the sake of smashing (the latter due a lot due to my fear of getting hurt) but at the same time I'm so hard and have such a pervasive negative self-image about myself.
As of now, I'm just trying to focus on my career and get better. I'm in a lot better place than I used to be, but I'm not there yet. And I know the issues I have with women are generally on me. I just don't want to be "forever alone."
This is real but the problem is people don't want to hear real. They want to be able to cock back and take a shyt on others for being honest about their situations, that is until they go through some real shyt and you see them air out their frustrations just like anyone with problems would. Too much pissing going on
SmoothOperator88
Your friendly neighborhood coli poster
Exactly. Understanding is hard and time consuming a lot of the time. It's the reason that I've been distancing myself from some people including my best friend growing up.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Hitting the gym hard and seriously, will help.
I noticed most issues here are ppl are body conscious, hit the gym and get comfortable in your body & love your body.
How you feel about yourself will affect how you step to women
I noticed most issues here are ppl are body conscious, hit the gym and get comfortable in your body & love your body.
How you feel about yourself will affect how you step to women