Anybody Else Have Problems Committing To Getting In A Relationship

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Am I the only one that just enjoyed the chase but when things got serious just backed off. I was scared of the p*ssy I might miss out on.

I remember this one girl in highschool like it was yesterday. Me and her used to flirt, her moreso than me. She asked me one day who was i with? i said nobody, she then responded with who you want to be with...and i said i dont know.

Seemed like a safe answer :ehh: but the next day she wouldnt even speak to me and im sitting there like :why:

happened countless times in highschool i didnt have a relationship until one girl straight up pressured me into going on a date and we lasted about a year :ehh: and there have been others but they had to push me in the same.

:sadbron: i still have problems committing to them anybody else have this problem?n i just dont wanna miss out but funny enough i am moreso doing what i do
 

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You might just be afraid of rejection. That would explain why you just chase after the girls but don't make any kind of move beyond that. You don't ask these girls out because you're afraid they'll say no.

Let's be honest, your post doesn't make it sound like you're gettin laid at all. :comeon:
 
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maybe thats true but my number aint bad ive had some good relationships i just always have to be pushed to doing it.

You might be on to something though about being scared of rejection but some girls leave no doubt in my mind like the one i described in the first post.
 

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You might just be afraid of rejection. That would explain why you just chase after the girls but don't make any kind of move beyond that. You don't ask these girls out because you're afraid they'll say no.

Let's be honest, your post doesn't make it sound like you're gettin laid at all. :comeon:

I have commitment issues but it is not based on being rejected.

I think that what I expect from a relationships is not realistic, I want to have it all my way when it should be a two-way street.
 

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Am I the only one that just enjoyed the chase but when things got serious just backed off. I was scared of the p*ssy I might miss out on.

I remember this one girl in highschool like it was yesterday. Me and her used to flirt, her moreso than me. She asked me one day who was i with? i said nobody, she then responded with who you want to be with...and i said i dont know.

Seemed like a safe answer :ehh: but the next day she wouldnt even speak to me and im sitting there like :why:

happened countless times in highschool i didnt have a relationship until one girl straight up pressured me into going on a date and we lasted about a year :ehh: and there have been others but they had to push me in the same.

:sadbron: i still have problems committing to them anybody else have this problem?n i just dont wanna miss out but funny enough i am moreso doing what i do

I have commitment problems but nothing like yours.

How old are you breh?
 

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*Looks at thread title* "Anybody Else Have Problems Committing To Getting In A Relationship"

:snoop:

*realizes a more concise title would be "Anybody Else Have Problems Committing To A Relationship"

Just sayin'.

:pachaha:
 
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