Anybody Else in There 30+ Stop Giving a fukk

[Yinny]

Thankful as I've grown, the people that I deal with are more business minded than anything. At some point I think reasonable people learn to SHUT THE fukk UP if you don't have something decent to say and possible risk what we've worked so hard and come so far for

so it never comes down to having to "go off" or even having hurt feelings

I’ve never been one to bite my tongue and would do the back and forth (exercise not cause I ever gave a fukk) but I am so much more cognizant of how I spend my time and with whom/doing what.

With respect to other people and their opinions, I have this pesky habit of forgetting my general mo in real life is “I don’t have to consider your opinion just because you have a mouth,” and only finally started applying the same to those with wifi access.

Some people also express their opinions and thoughts esp in a nasty manner as if I’m supposed to give a damn when I barely did in the first place-so I don’t even bother wasting my time anymore.

 

[alpo]

Has anybody Anybody Else in There 30+ Just Stop Giving a fukk?

What I mean by this is just telling people how you see it, Ive only worked in the corporate or government so being PC pretty much has been my life....

But I'm at a standstill where it's fukk everybody, from these racist Trump supporters to these fake ass white people that are liberal that are just as patronizing as these Trump supporters....

Maybe I going thru a mid life crisis but I'm at the point where I'm not biting my tongue as much....

Your waking up

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I’ve never been one to bite my tongue and would do the back and forth (exercise not cause I ever gave a fukk) but I am so much more cognizant of how I spend my time and with whom/doing what.
With respect to other people and their opinions, I have this pesky habit of forgetting my general mo in real life is “I don’t have to consider your opinion just because you have a mouth,” and only finally started applying the same to those with wifi access.
Some people also express their opinions and thoughts esp in a nasty manner as if I’m supposed to give a damn when I barely did in the first place-so I don’t even bother wasting my time anymore.

it's blatant ignorance. you don't need that type of energy sis. it's good for entertainment or procrastination but other than that, fukk em!

 

[Rhyme n Tekniq]

started @ 26 for me, I had dealt with so much shyt up to that point, That something in me just snapped and I never looked back

I've always been unfiltered but I'm alot more prone to agreesively nipping shyt in the bud ASAP now.

I'm not giving you a chance to finesse, gaslight or be passive aggressive with me. If you a p*ssy trying to get all manly and authoritative, I'm gonna let you know you're a p*ssy

My agression in my twenties was more so me being lost and frustrated, disillusioned by the reality of things

my agression now is is more about cutting throught the bullshyt and doing everything to protect my positive space and not allowing negative, defeatist bullshyt to penetrate my subconcious or invade my space.

the final element is that I've reached a point where I have attained a zenful aggression, meaning I can comfortably turn it on without getting all worked up , If I have to step out of my positive laid back space, I'll deal with shyt firmly and go right back to how I was prior without missing a beat

 

[AVO]

I just turned 30 and it's like a switch flipped where I didn't care. Things I would've had anxiety about didn't even phase me anymore. shyts crazy but I've been way happier.

 

[Neuromancer]

Once you hit 30 it's kinda like that. And the older you get the less you care.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Yes
I recently read a book called 'The Art Of Not Giving A fukk'
Sincerely it has helped improve my mindset

Prior I was giving all these fukks that were not mine to give

 

[2 one 3]

Yes
I recently read a book called 'The Art Of Not Giving A fukk'
Sincerely it has helped improve my mindset

Prior I was giving all these fukks that were not mine to give

let that shyt go sis…

 

[2 one 3]

What’s even more sad is seeing women in my age range competing for attention on IG with these 19 to 25 year olds…



my high school crush got ass naked on IG and some bootleg fake artistic type beach photoshoot


Man…

 

[Kasgoinjail]

What’s even more sad is seeing women in my age range competing for attention on IG with these 19 to 25 year olds…



my high school crush got ass naked on IG and some bootleg fake artistic type beach photoshoot


Man…

Where is the 'aging like fine wine' women
Seems like they all wanna be a red bull

 

[2 one 3]

Where is the 'aging like fine wine' women
Seems like they all wanna be a red bull

Man…


I was talking to my older sister about that shyt the other day and she was like “when is it time to say stop?”


Because it seems like that thirst for attention is hitting no matter how old they are.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

After the shyt I been through once I hit 30, the entire world can eat a dikk. But really, as a older marsupial, I valued the concept of Wabi Sabi, which means to live a life of acceptance for self imperfection.

From downsizing and fitting the aura of Passport gang, I come to terms that this life we are living in needs more value outside of the concept of materialistic things.

Don't get me wrong, I love "stuff", but the reality is that it should not be your dictator of where you want to go in life.

Compared to my younger days of being a vanity slave and now, I appreciate the ability to be in my 30s and go "fukk it"

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Man…


I was talking to my older sister about that shyt the other day and she was like “when is it time to say stop?”


Because it seems like that thirst for attention is hitting no matter how old they are.

I'd rather have 1 man undivided attention for the rest of my life than 1000 random creeps for 10 minutes

 

[MoveForward]

It took me until I was 30+ to figure out people don’t give a fukk, so why should I? I’m a g and I will knock you the fukk out or worst but I have always been a nice guy and that sh*t doesn’t work, people take advantage of it. Now I’m just straight forward and call it how I see it without a care of how you may take it and I noticed that it’s very effective, personally and professionally.