Anybody ever been the dude females call before the real dude calls?

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Kinda got sucked into this role and thought nothing of it. Anyway, for the past 4-5 months, I've had the mindset of working hard and doin me without chasin females or being too social. Anyway, I've only kicked it with about 4-5 chicks and we dig each other having fun with no tension/drama.

Anyway, there is this one chick that constantly hits me up and tells me she misses me and tells me she wants to see me. We don't stay in the same location, but we had a thing for each other before. Anyways, I think nothing of it. It's awkward conversation and she checks on me just to see if I'm still single, or who I'm fking, I can hear the jealousy in her voice.

At one point I got tired of it and was like "I'm busy, I prefer to talk when I'm not busy, and I prefer you hit me up when you aren't busy" Because everytime she hits me up it's 5 minutes, then "hold up, I'll call you or text you later" while mid convo and I get super annoyed because it's a waste of time, but think nothing ofi t :what:

So she hits me up the other day and says she's not busy, and I'm just chillin, so she calls and does the same thing. I'm sitting here thinking...maybe she just hittin me up to get her nerves ready for another nikka that's about to call her or to calm herself. And I don't have time for that, I don't want to be that dude, that was never my intentions, I was so heated to know that I was suckered into that role, I can't even consider this chick a friend anymore:mjcry:

Should I throw this in the bushes?
 

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Kinda got sucked into this role and thought nothing of it. Anyway, for the past 4-5 months, I've had the mindset of working hard and doin me without chasin females or being too social. Anyway, I've only kicked it with about 4-5 chicks and we dig each other having fun with no tension/drama.

Anyway, there is this one chick that constantly hits me up and tells me she misses me and tells me she wants to see me. We don't stay in the same location, but we had a thing for each other before. Anyways, I think nothing of it. It's awkward conversation and she checks on me just to see if I'm still single, or who I'm fking, I can hear the jealousy in her voice.

At one point I got tired of it and was like "I'm busy, I prefer to talk when I'm not busy, and I prefer you hit me up when you aren't busy" Because everytime she hits me up it's 5 minutes, then "hold up, I'll call you or text you later" while mid convo and I get super annoyed because it's a waste of time, but think nothing ofi t :what:

So she hits me up the other day and says she's not busy, and I'm just chillin, so she calls and does the same thing. I'm sitting here thinking...maybe she just hittin me up to get her nerves ready for another nikka that's about to call her or to calm herself. And I don't have time for that, I don't want to be that dude, that was never my intentions, I was so heated to know that I was suckered into that role, I can't even consider this chick a friend anymore:mjcry:

Should I throw this in the bushes?
U should of threw her in the bushes day 1

But ya keep entertaining her

Next time she calls you ...she's gonna be like


"Can you drive me to this guy in seeing"
 

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we live lightyears away, and I never ever do something like that.
Then why you even answering her calls if she lives that far away?? :wtf:
Its not like you gonna fukk her anytime soon


Only time you should be communicating with her is when your in her city to fukk...
 
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