Anybody ever have a fight with a grown ass younger sibling?

[O.T.I.S.]

how was your relationship after that?

That shyt hit me in a different way... different emotions because it almost felt like I was talking to a nikka I helped raise but he disagreed with my lifestyle.

It felt like the scene from the Rocky movie when his son was all grown up but hated his ass

 

[Address_Unknown]

Physical fight? Nah. May the good Lord strike me Dead if I ever lay hands on my brother short of hitting our mother; something neither of us would never do.

We've had a few verbal altercations with the most serious one being a few months ago but that dissipated within an hour when I went and apologized and we both said our piece in a more calm fashion.

But then again me and my bro are both stoic folk with the same type of interests and that branch off into other avenues rooted in the same medium (Videogames/Music/Reading) so we always reconnect and I've been making strides to tell the people I love that I'm sorry whenever I have one of those "Angry moments" where in the aftermath I'm just like "fukk, THAT nikka", and start mentally trying to erase them out of my life (for a period) on some petulant shyt; a process which is necessary at times.

We may not agree on everything but at the end of the day he knows I got his back in damn near all aspects of life 'cause we's all we got, man.

 

[MoroccanBoy]

My big brother had to whoop my ass many times for being out of line. Still close as can be. It shows real love.

 

[The Exchanges]

Got all sisters except my 4 year old bro.


My cuzzos used to go at it tho. I'm talking, holes in walls, blood, month long rivalry.


at 23 and 25 they closer than ever now.



shyt used to always start over video games and play fighting when I came over .


Family mad competitive and shyt talking is like second nature when it came to ball or the sticks.

 

[Blackrogue]

I can't anymore since my little brother got his black belt.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Yea.

I won most of them

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Physical fight? Nah. May the good Lord strike me Dead if I ever lay hands on my brother short of hitting our mother; something neither of us would never do.

We've had a few verbal altercations with the most serious one being a few months ago but that dissipated within an hour when I went and apologized and we both said our piece in a more calm fashion.

But then again me and my bro are both stoic folk with the same type of interests and that branch off into other avenues rooted in the same medium (Videogames/Music/Reading) so we always reconnect and I've been making strides to tell the people I love that I'm sorry whenever I have one of those "Angry moments" where in the aftermath I'm just like "fukk, THAT nikka", and start mentally trying to erase them out of my life (for a period) on some petulant shyt; a process which is necessary at times.

We may not agree on everything but at the end of the day he knows I got his back in damn near all aspects of life 'cause we's all we got, man.

That’s literally how our altercation went. Like i felt bad striking this nikka in front of his wife and his mom. So I held back by asking him REPEATEDLY “are you serious. Is this what you trying to do WITH ME”

He was bout it and I was eventually like “fukk it “
If you don’t wanna talk then we’ll go outside.. nobody else come out side.”

Because I’m either gonna talk you down or me and you gonna run this fade like I never seen you before in my life

 

[Y2Dre]

My lil brother 21 and an amateur physique bodybuilder.

I’m pretty sure he could whoop my ass now tbh. I don’t want no smoke.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I just never been in that situation with someone I care about. Like I genuinely tell him im proud of him and his accomplishments

I know our past

But this was one of the main reasons for my rants earlier in the week. I never wanted to have that kinda static with people I care about.

I guess I been away for so long....


I really want to hear my uncles side of the story now because he be sitting there with the Koolaid smile and that shyt bothers me

 

[O.T.I.S.]

And once he broke down and told me how he felt it became less about ego and just relating to what he was saying. Basically, I hurt people by not being the man they think I should be.

Drinking, drugs, lack of apathy for anything and he was like “nikka we look up to you and you act like you don’t give a fukk”

Facts... i still feel like I punked out and it was overdramatized but I feel him.

I was ashamed a lil bit because I didn’t know. It was tough to digest so I went into my shell for a few days.

So we didn’t come to full blows but my energy matched his and vice versa. I was literally just visiting now I got all eyes on me on some bullshyt I never expected to be an issue

 

[O.T.I.S.]

But basically, I’m not an emotional person.

People get emotional and I get tf on, go about my life continue living it like I have been. But how do you deal with that with fam and people you genuinely care about when it gets to this point where you in the middle of the street about to kill each other?

 

[kenreid0726eabos]

how was your relationship after that?

That shyt hit me in a different way... different emotions because it almost felt like I was talking to a nikka I helped raise but he disagreed with my lifestyle.

It felt like the scene from the Rocky movie when his son was all grown up but hated his ass

home life

 

[NobleDrewAli]

I had to lay hands on my big sister (figuratively and literally. She's 5'11, 270lbs and 3 years older than me. I was 6'2 250 at the time.) who dresses and acts like a man. We don't talk as much now, but it's still love and she doesn't try to fight me anymore .





Once she felt that man strength she was all ......"so you hit bytches now."



Me: "oh you a bytch now? You was just a real nikka 2 minutes ago after you was all my face and swinging on me after I told you to chill".




I hate we fought, but it had to be done.

 

[Yinny]

Not really but close enough. I never would despite how valid I may be in my anger, shyt is just pathetic. My closest in age sis probably could fukk me up at this point anyway she heavyhanded as hell

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

One time with my oldest brother.

It was a good fight.but he got the better of me overall.

He gave me my first black eye.

We still cool and its all love
But we was never close.