Anybody Ever Relocate and Completely Change Their Personality??
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PhonZhi
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like @Raul said, embrace it breh. Everybody cant be the life of the party like kevin hart, have the charisma of rick ross or the swag of Jay. Just accept who u are. And PLEASE dnt let social media fool u. Ppl arent as happy and swagged out as they put out thereI'm not ready to concede to being a lame
I dont like how u refer to urself as a lame jus cuz ur not the outgoing type. What actually was "lame" of u was tryna change urself for others, not ur personality.
And a lot of these outgoing swagged out nikkas is actually jus rly lames that put up a facade.
NOW WITH THAT BEING SAID, theres a difference between being introverted, and being shy and thus feeling like ur missin out on a social life that u actually want. I used to be super shy, in fact I had self diagnosed myself with social anxiety. Ive worked hard for to change that, not for others, but for myself. For my personal enjoyment of life. It took going outside of my comfort zone repeatedly and doing crazy/embarassing shyt. Some of the shyt ive done
Basically, my point is, theres two type of acceptances. Theres the one where u accept who u r and do what u like and dont give a shyt wut ppl say. And theres the one where u give up and just accept ur situation by settling for a style of living that doesn't rly make u as happy as u wish ud be. Which one is u, OP?
And a lot of these outgoing swagged out nikkas is actually jus rly lames that put up a facade.
NOW WITH THAT BEING SAID, theres a difference between being introverted, and being shy and thus feeling like ur missin out on a social life that u actually want. I used to be super shy, in fact I had self diagnosed myself with social anxiety. Ive worked hard for to change that, not for others, but for myself. For my personal enjoyment of life. It took going outside of my comfort zone repeatedly and doing crazy/embarassing shyt. Some of the shyt ive done
Basically, my point is, theres two type of acceptances. Theres the one where u accept who u r and do what u like and dont give a shyt wut ppl say. And theres the one where u give up and just accept ur situation by settling for a style of living that doesn't rly make u as happy as u wish ud be. Which one is u, OP?
I went from going out getting tables all the time and clubbin to chillin, hittin bars and lounges when i moved to dallas. I chalked it up to maturing a little tho.
Dont gotta party every week to have fun. Also you're only lame cuz you call yourself lame
Dont gotta party every week to have fun. Also you're only lame cuz you call yourself lame
Silver Surfer
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hmmmmm.....for me it has always been about evolving....Im mos def a different person than I was in HS...but hey that was like 15 years ago...
Rocket Scientist
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When I lived up north I was a quiet cat.I moved to south became more social,more easy going.I can't say its a bad fit but it wasn't a smooth transition.In north you may be big fish (or small fish however you think of yourself) in a big pond.Once you move down south it's small pond and game slows down.I don't regret a Damn thing,I don't need 28338292 friends to keep me happy.If I roll alone,I roll alone at least I got peace from all the drama.
Rocket Scientist
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People change everyday B
i think it's pretty hard to change your personality
in terms of flipping a switch to be more outgoing or humorous
but people can change things like stopping criminal activity
drug/drink usage as well
promiscuity, etc.
moving is a good way to change your associates
cut out temptations and turn over a fresh leaf
in terms of flipping a switch to be more outgoing or humorous
but people can change things like stopping criminal activity
drug/drink usage as well
promiscuity, etc.
moving is a good way to change your associates
cut out temptations and turn over a fresh leaf
underrated post. and the original post also goes hard. 5 star threadhmmmmm.....for me it has always been about evolving....Im mos def a different person than I was in HS...but hey that was like 15 years ago...
