Anybody here a loner

[semicko82]

Not on some misanthrope shyt, but you legit enjoy time to yourself.

I always have people ask me why are you always by yourself and I always tell them " I don't chase after friends to hang out with me". If you want to hang cool if not oh well

 

[2ATMsYouSteppinOrWhat]

Yes... when im by myself nobody bugging me and i’m not bugging anybody...

 

[semicko82]

Not on some misanthrope shyt, but you legit enjoy time to yourself.

I always have people ask me why are you always by yourself and I always tell them " I don't chase after friends to hang out with me". If you want to hang cool if not oh well

Don't get me wrong I can be a charming and funny dude when it's the right time, but the juice ain't worth the squeeze

 

[semicko82]

Yes... when im by myself nobody bugging me and i’m not bugging anybody...

At the end of the day, people don't want to bothered.

 

[Ahadi]

Being alone is great because you basically serve a higher purpose on earth and you have no distractions.

 

[TEH]

I think anyone who posts here is at least part loner


The non loners are on regular social media

 

[TheIsleofMan]

I’m very particular. Plus, I have a really short attention span and I’m a pothead.

And I sometimes see people (specifically women) as objects. I’m trying to work on it and I’ve def improved.

 

[semicko82]

Being alone is great because you basically serve a higher purpose on earth and you have no distractions.

interesting, people see being alone as a negative thing

 

[Ahadi]

interesting, people see being alone as a negative thing

Not at all. I think also you get more done and you don’t have a lot of jealous or toxic energy around you.

 

[Address_Unknown]

I wouldn't call myself a loner since I'm actually a pretty sociable guy. I can meet and level with people across many walks of life through initial conversation, especially if Alcohol and other entertainment factors are involved, like say books, movies, music, videogames, travelling, etc..

However, I value the fukk out of my alone time where I can just be me and do all the things I've got planned in my head for the day, without having to talk to anyone or be privy to anyone else's input as to what I'm going to do next. Like folk complain about being bored at home, alone, like they need company to validate themselves because deep down they can't entertain themselves or find solace in simply being alone.

Plus, I do alot of thinking/plotting/writing/formulating when I'm alone and I enjoy it that way. I can write/edit shyt by myself, tool around with my guitars and make generic riffs, clean and sharpen my knives, or just get high and let my brain detach with some music and navigate through all the mental scenarios I create in such a state for my amusement.

 

[semicko82]

Not at all. I think also you get more done and you don’t have a lot of jealous or toxic energy around you.

Bingo, I cut so many friends off the last couple of years because they were moochers, always whining, or no ambition in life. You can't make moves with weight on your ankles

 

[SATAN]

I used to be, but I started to feel so lonely. It was depressing. In the last 6 months I've made plenty of real friends.

 

[semicko82]

I used to be, but I started to feel so lonely. It was depressing. In the last 6 months I've made plenty of real friends.

Why were you a loner in the first place?

 

[SATAN]

Why were you a loner in the first place?

Because I had been in prison and used to be a fiend, I had low self-esteem, dealing with shame and guilt of my past, and issues with self-worth. I felt as though I didn't deserve to be around other people.

I lost touch with everyone I had known before then

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Yup sometimes I'd just go to the park and chill alone. Or go get something to eat alone.