Raises hand.
Never.
Just flings and random hook ups.
Never.
Just flings and random hook ups.
anybody here NEVER been in a relationship or had a serious gf?
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Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
Why though? Are you afraid of commitment or you just haven't found someone worthy of your time and attention?
Larry Lobster
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My brother. 
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
The opposite. Aside from college, I've been in relationships most of my adult life.
Westcoastnative
All Star
Same here.
Address_Unknown
Jesus Loves you...Your Cat doesn't. {#Dogset}
Back when I was 16 or so met up with this seemingly genuine chick that quickly exploited my good samaritan type nature and hooked me in a relationship.
Found out around when I hit 20 that she had like 2-3 different sugar daddy type blokes and I was pretty much just a p*ssy chauffeur.
Good thing I didn't let that shyt jade me to the point where I'd turn into some kinda blubbering fukkboy, thinking women ain't shyt and crying about it every chance I get.
Might reconsider a serious relationship again when I hit 40.
Found out around when I hit 20 that she had like 2-3 different sugar daddy type blokes and I was pretty much just a p*ssy chauffeur.
Good thing I didn't let that shyt jade me to the point where I'd turn into some kinda blubbering fukkboy, thinking women ain't shyt and crying about it every chance I get.
Might reconsider a serious relationship again when I hit 40.
In no particular order
-fear of commitment
-havent found anybody that truly genuinely digs me or feels compatible
-i like being alone and having my space
-a general feeling of alienation from the rest of society from being Nigerian and West indian and never really feeling like i could fit in somewhere without issues...relationships included.
-i don't put myself out there and never cared too unless i got my shyt together
-focus on my goals in art, music, and fashion
-i'd rather go for who i actually like but due to this society and it's stigmas i just felt really weird even approaching women for a while.
-depression and dealing with it made me feel like i was unattractive and therefore hindered me from approaching women even if they liked me
-people stress the fukk out of me with their bs when it comes to who i want to be with. It's now gotten to the point where honestly if i do have another woman in my life...i aint telling nobody. I was seeing this older white woman last year and shyt...i was feeling her...she was feeling me...but i told this board and they were making jokes and friends kept on giving me some mess and the shyt made me feel uncomfortable even trying to meet women after the fact.
-social anxiety
*raises hand*
It's a long story. Bad choices in women, almost doesn't count, hating ass bytches , some commitment anxiety, being cursed .
I can't give you a straight answer .
It's a long story. Bad choices in women, almost doesn't count, hating ass bytches , some commitment anxiety, being cursed .
I can't give you a straight answer .
Oh...sometimes i feel like women like the idea of me...but not me 100%.
Oh...they see me skateboarding in the park. They like that i'm this black dude that's into art and fashion and music and djs and makes music but then there's one thing the want to change about me and honestly i dont change for no one. Not even women. The moment that happens?
Also...straight up. Most of these women want someone who's safe that they can present to mom and dad. That was and is not me. I feel like most women out there aint with who they actuallly like...but who's acceptable in the eyes of their peers.
This seems to be the reason why i always ended up being most women's side piece or why i seemed like i was that dude that women with boyfriends cheated on. And to this day...i notice women with their boyfriends checking me out. I seem to just be that dude that makes these women second guess and realize they man is lame. I've even had a time where i was flirting with this attractive college professor from WVU when i went to Morgantown 3 years agl. She's all smiling at me enjoying the convo while nervously looking at her wedding band.
I'll never be a woman's first choice...i feel like im always gonna be that dude her man don't know about. This is why I'm so weird with relationships and women now.
Do they really like me or do they just like me for that time?
Do they see me as boyfriend material or just someone that's there?
Oh...they see me skateboarding in the park. They like that i'm this black dude that's into art and fashion and music and djs and makes music but then there's one thing the want to change about me and honestly i dont change for no one. Not even women. The moment that happens?
Also...straight up. Most of these women want someone who's safe that they can present to mom and dad. That was and is not me. I feel like most women out there aint with who they actuallly like...but who's acceptable in the eyes of their peers.
This seems to be the reason why i always ended up being most women's side piece or why i seemed like i was that dude that women with boyfriends cheated on. And to this day...i notice women with their boyfriends checking me out. I seem to just be that dude that makes these women second guess and realize they man is lame. I've even had a time where i was flirting with this attractive college professor from WVU when i went to Morgantown 3 years agl. She's all smiling at me enjoying the convo while nervously looking at her wedding band.
I'll never be a woman's first choice...i feel like im always gonna be that dude her man don't know about. This is why I'm so weird with relationships and women now.
Do they really like me or do they just like me for that time?
Do they see me as boyfriend material or just someone that's there?