Anyone dealt with narcissistics romantically?

[Rozay Oro]

This bytch will not leave me alone in person, always finding ways to fukk with me

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Gotta block her. Cut her off. Hopefully yall don’t live together nor neighbors

 

[Vandelay]

Yup. My ex-wife was one.

Most people aren’t built to deal with narcissists. I can give you some tips, but it's really not worth it. If you recognize it, I'd recommend turning the other way. They will burn everything down to prove a point.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Gotta block her. Cut her off. Hopefully yall don’t live together nor neighbors

Thank God none of that is the case. i still have to deal with her often

 

[Rozay Oro]

Yup. My ex-wife was one.

Most people aren’t built to deal with narcissists. I can give you some tips, but it's really not worth it. If you recognize it, I'd recommend turning the other way. They will burn everything down to prove a point.

Took me weeks to figure it out after she rejected my advances. It’s so fukking weird. I’ve been watching breh break it down. I can’t believe people can be this fukked to potential and romantic interests.



I sure as fukk am not

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

1. LEAVE
2. DO NOT GET PREGNANT
3. LEAVE

 

[TRUEST]

Avoid. Or make a resolute decision to break them. Not on no violent tip. But on some subliminal ‘I know what you are’. Limit your sexual activities to her blowing you “

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

You can’t win against somebody willing to lose in order to see you lose too

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Gotta block her. Cut her off. Hopefully yall don’t live together nor neighbors

 

[Abstract83]

Don't seed don't wife don't move in. Just block with no explanation and move on with your life. I was in a narc situation for yrs. Didn't know what I was dealing with until I researched narcissists.

You can't argue with them. Even if you win you still lose. She'll beg u back with apologies and fake promises to change and immediately offer u sex. Be cool for a week or 2 then right back to emotional abuse. Then u break up she'll beg u back crying and repeat the cycle. You have to cut off your emotions and leave. Pretend the person has died. That's how strong you have to be to get over it. Don't peep social media and don't check what she's doing afterwards.

You have to completely move on with your life. Talk to close friends and family that u trust or therapy to get back your happiness and motivation. Keep your emotions in check and establish boundaries. Narcs can sense when you are vulnerable for them to come back. It's some deep spiritual warfare.

I eventually moved on and I'm currently married to a wonderful woman. We have our issues. Nothing I can't handle. But it's nothing like the abuse I went thru. Stay strong.

This dude advice helped me stay motivated to stay away and move on.

 

[Golstrag]

Yes, I was married to one of for 10 years, and the reason why we are in the middle of a divorce. I am a natural empath, and I didn’t really understand the dynamic until it was too late.

Something I’ve read that stuck with me:
“Her pain was sacred…Mine was inconvenient.”

https://youtu.be/qMhMsWW2R0I

 

[cheek100]

Run. Far far away.

 

[drederick tatum]

Stop fukking posting

 

[JA_Carter]

One of the worst experiences ever, I’m still dealing with it 2 years after the breakup; false police reports, constant harassment of me and the girls I’ve dated since with multiple numbers/accounts, having to file a restraining order, cutting off mutuals to avoid any association with her, honestly if you see legit signs of being a narcissist end it as soon as possible

 

[Abstract83]

One of the worst experiences ever, I’m still dealing with it 2 years after the breakup; false police reports, constant harassment of me and the girls I’ve dated since with multiple numbers/accounts, having to file a restraining order, cutting off mutuals to avoid any association with her, honestly if you see legit signs of being a narcissist end it as soon as possible

I'm sorry you're still going thru it breh.