Anyone dealt with narcissistics romantically?

[Sassy]

If its a narcissist, do yourself and your mind, body, and spirit as well as nervous system a favor and cut them off.

Speaking purely from experience.

 

[Uchiha God]

That word just gets tossed around these days

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yes

Spoke about it on here.. did it multiple times


There are different types.. but yeah, might be safe to just leave it alone altogether. IF they come back, or try to come back, it will be for “revenge”.


Again, a lot of people out here are narcissist and don’t know it. But there are signs but it’s more of a combination of things. If they are not the type to see what they’re doing is wrong, or try to correct it, then let it go

 

[Taco]

Yeup she threatened to break up with me after I scrolled through her camera roll w/ hundreds of selfies all took in a three day span. Honestly, I made light of it she didn’t, but that shyt was mad creepy. I get like maybe a page or two, but straight scrolling seeing the same selfie was wild. Not even different angles just looked like a duplicated picture for pages like damn. Easily the baddest girl I’ve dated, but also the most insecure. p*ssy was good tho.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

One of the worst experiences ever, I’m still dealing with it 2 years after the breakup; false police reports, constant harassment of me and the girls I’ve dated since with multiple numbers/accounts, having to file a restraining order, cutting off mutuals to avoid any association with her, honestly if you see legit signs of being a narcissist end it as soon as possible

Yep

Those type of relationships will make you not want to be in one ever again.

And we are raising a lot more narcissts out here in this generation. Those relationships can be mentally traumatizing.

Yes, I was married to one of for 10 years, and the reason why we are in the middle of a divorce. I am a natural empath, and I didn’t really understand the dynamic until it was too late.

Something I’ve read that stuck with me:
“Her pain was sacred…Mine was inconvenient.”

https://youtu.be/qMhMsWW2R0I

They latch on to empaths


There are ways for you to fukk them up too but it’s not worth the time you would waste to do so. I’m just naturally upsetting to most narcissists.

But one of the main signs is someone who could give a fukk less about anything you have going on in your life, any of your issues, just completely all about themselves. They talk about themselves, always looking at themselves, worried about what people think (and takes actions off those thoughts), projects shyt they do on you, “gaslighting” in arguments, and are sneaky on getting in to your life. Or getting BACK into your life… especially if you identify as an empath. And they are also extremely jealous of you, any attention you receive in anyway, jealous of friends/family relationships you may have (trying to isolate), and they want to (and want you to) think that they are better than you or that you are never good enough no matter what you do.

They’re like addicted to empathetic people but mainly for what you do for them.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Took me weeks to figure it out after she rejected my advances. It’s so fukking weird. I’ve been watching breh break it down. I can’t believe people can be this fukked to potential and romantic interests.



I sure as fukk am not

Just started seeing this dudes vids. I check them out sometimes, since he is clinically diagnosed as one.


But he’s not a female. He probably gives good generalized advice about narcissists but I be wondering if it’s relative enough because I only deal with female ones in relationships. Idgaf about male narcissists because I don’t kick it with nikkas in a emotional way and confront them easier.

Basically, idgaf about nikkas like that. I’m probably even cool with a few but unless you my homie for decades, you not getting this close without vetting

Females are more covert in the beginning.


Trump is the biggest example of a narcissist that you will ever see on TV. Lying, projecting, pretending, being weak around stronger men, image focused, lack of empathy, etc etc etc.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Vid is pretty much spot on about what I was saying

Especially the isolating and keeping you beneath them part.

And it’s not out right.. it’s very subtle and over a long period of time. They kinda trap you in this emotional point where you love/care for them but every chance they get they try to tear you down. Not directly all the time either, it is little shyt too.

If you ever had a chick that tries to isolate you from your friends and fam, she is probably a narcissist. Anybody who is about “controlling” another person is probably a narcissist.