Anyone else felt a guilty for ending a relationship even though you don’t regret it?

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Basically I dumped my ex because she did something wrong to me and disrespected me instead of apologizing, but I’m worried about how she’s taking it due to her mental illness. How do y’all cope?
 

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No I think as long as you really break up with someone and don't ghost them or cheat on them, and breakup like an adult it's no reason to feel guilt.
 

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Nope. My last ex with “anxiety and depression” had family drama, had several family members pass away, and had to care for her grandmother who had the worst cancer I’ve ever seen and required daily care… she still found time to cheat. :ehh:

Funny because I stuck around out of pity and concern but after that I broke up with her via text, blocked her and got back with another ex 2 weeks later… :ehh:
 

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Bro u steady making these kinds of threads man settle that shyt w the bytch
 

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Basically I dumped my ex because she did something wrong to me and disrespected me instead of apologizing, but I’m worried about how she’s taking it due to her mental illness. How do y’all cope?

What did she do
 

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If the disrespect was so bad that it led to you breaking up then consider yourself lucky it happened sooner rather than later because it tells you a lot about a person and/or your compatibility.

If you acted unreasonably however, then the guilt may have merit. Women are more resilient than they appear in such situations and always, always having apparent mental fragilities or dealing with a lot at the same time - which helps your guilt really burn your soul even more. You care for her after all and don't want to be a source of pain.

You say you don't regret it which means you don't believe you were unreasonable.

Was it really this act of disrespect or was this a good opportunity to end something you didn't truly want anyway?

You may have to tell us the full story and provide a full body pic of her for more accurate advice.
 
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