Anyone else on the coli have no desire to have kids?

[Neuromancer]

I don't have a desire for a legacy outside of my writing. I'm an uncle and that's cool but that's as far as I feel like going. I'm also not trying bring a life into country that's on the brink and a world that seems to be dying.

Anyone else feel this way?

 

[Roid Jones]

 

[Redwood]

I haven't been convinced to have some

Too many games being played on both sides.

 

[Neuromancer]

I haven't been convinced to have some

Too many games being played on both sides.

Yeah that too I suppose. Doesn't seem worth it.

 

[OVER]

Me. I never want children.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

 

[Roger king]

I want to have kids God willing to be able to see my children and grand children.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I'm an uncle myself. I helped raised my nieces and nephews and seen them grow up. Feels cool.

However, I don't have a desire to get married. Having kids is undecided. Bringing kids in this cold-hearted world devoid of loyalty and love got me saying NO.

My mom wants me to fulfill the family legacy and bring her grandkids. Unfortunately, I may have to disappoint her.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Me. I never want children.

Potentially deal with a biased family court system brehs


If I'ma gamble, I might as well go to the casino/game room; at least if I lose, my money is not gone for 18 years

 

[Heafcliffe]

Always found myself of the mindset of "If they come, they come... and be thankful/ grateful" but, over time, I've come to the realization that I may not be built for parenthood.

This realization may trickle down to my thinking that I wouldn't be a good parent to the child/ children. My own childhood fukked a breh up.

Ironically, many of my friends believe I'd be a great father though.

 

[Neuromancer]

Always found myself of the mindset of "If they come, they come..." but over time, I've come to the realization that I may not be built for children.

This realization may trickle to the child/ children in me not being a good parent.

Ironically, many of my friends believe I'd be a great father though.

Many people tell me this too.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Rewarding experience. Challenging and humbling. I don't want more than 2.



My experience has taught me...rule #1.

The quality of the mother is directly proportioned to your experience raising a child correctly.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

I want to have kids, but I want to have kids in wedlock only. The way it's looking right now idk if getting married is ever gonna happen for me

 

[Estarossa]

If I have kids cool… if I don’t cool. It’s not some goal or life purpose for me to have children.

 

[Jean Jacket]

I want to have kids, but I want to have kids in wedlock only. The way it's looking right now idk if getting married is ever gonna happen for me

If I would do it over...

I wouldn't get married until past 35.

And prenups are definitely on deck.