anyone on here ever regret rejecting someone?

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I ain't talking about after dumping your S/O but like a dude/chick stepping to you and asking you out/getting to know you? :lupe:
 
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This chick named Vivian.Dissed her all throughout 7th & 8th grade.

The first time she approached me was in 7th grade.I was guzzling down some water at the water fountain and when I turned around, she was standing right behind me.She seemed really nervous, but she worked up enough courage to introduce herself to me.She stuck out her hand to give me a handshake "Hi I'm Vivian, but my friends call me Vee Vee".It was all good, but her braces had me:huhldup:because I could see the saliva building up on them muthafukkas.It made her speech kinda slurred.Not only that, she wore glasses, to.

A part of me felt bad for her.She seemed hella nice, but the physical attraction just wasn't there.The only thing that I thought was fly about her was her skin tone.She had a golden brown/bronze skin tone.I'm looking at her like :ld:"at least your skin is flawless"


She had it bad, breh.I remember we had this lil Christmas party before Winter break.She wasn't in my class, but her class was right next door to mine.During parties, our teachers would let us go from class room to class room to mingle.Her and her girls showed up to my class, but she didn't come all the way in.She stood by the door, CRYING, while her girls approached my desk area.

"Vee Vee really likes you and she's out there crying right now.She wanted to know if she could have some chips off your plate(Christmas party.I had a plate of chips & cookies) and a piece of your hair:merchant:"

I hit em with the:leostare: and they started trying to go in on me, calling me "stuck up" and concieted.Telling me how fukked up I was for leaving her hanging and making her cry.


Luckily, that was my last day at that school.I didn't return for the next semester.Moms got on some spur of the moment shyt and decided to move back to Los Angeles(From San Diego).

Fast forward 4 years later, I'm back in Diego visiting my cousin.I'm with this nikka in Ralphs and we see what appears to be a bad ass broad standing in the check out line.We see that she's with a dude who looks to be her man, but we go in for a close up anyway.

As we got close, we could only see her from behind.Thick lil frame in some cut off shorts and a spaghetti strap.We get in line directly behind her giving each other the:leon:look.Her man loading the groceries on the lil conveyor thing giving us the :birdman:look.He knew what it was....nikkaz was in Recon mode...anywayz

She turned around to check out the magazines and looked me dead in my eyes and we both kinda froze up.It was kinda awkward, but in my mind I'm going "Is that Vee Vee?:ohhh:"


I knew it was, but damn she looked good.Braces gone/no glasses/ bodacious:ohmy:.Looked like a totally different person.She never glanced at me again.Just played it off and walked off with her man.I kinda kicked myself for not having the foresight...just a lil bit.It is what it is.

But yeah, that was the only time.I would've never gussed that she would grow into something so fierce:wow:
 

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This chick named Vivian.Dissed her all throughout 7th & 8th grade.

The first time she approached me was in 7th grade.I was guzzling down some water at the water fountain and when I turned around, she was standing right behind me.She seemed really nervous, but she worked up enough courage to introduce herself to me.She stuck out her hand to give me a handshake "Hi I'm Vivian, but my friends call me Vee Vee".It was all good, but her braces had me:huhldup:because I could see the saliva building up on them muthafukkas.It made her speech kinda slurred.Not only that, she wore glasses, to.

A part of me felt bad for her.She seemed hella nice, but the physical attraction just wasn't there.The only thing that I thought was fly about her was her skin tone.She had a golden brown/bronze skin tone.I'm looking at her like :ld:"at least your skin is flawless"


She had it bad, breh.I remember we had this lil Christmas party before Winter break.She wasn't in my class, but her class was right next door to mine.During parties, our teachers would let us go from class room to class room to mingle.Her and her girls showed up to my class, but she didn't come all the way in.She stood by the door, CRYING, while her girls approached my desk area.

"Vee Vee really likes you and she's out there crying right now.She wanted to know if she could have some chips off your plate(Christmas party.I had a plate of chips & cookies) and a piece of your hair:merchant:"

I hit em with the:leostare: and they started trying to go in on me, calling me "stuck up" and concieted.Telling me how fukked up I was for leaving her hanging and making her cry.


Luckily, that was my last day at that school.I didn't return for the next semester.Moms got on some spur of the moment shyt and decided to move back to Los Angeles(From San Diego).

Fast forward 4 years later, I'm back in Diego visiting my cousin.I'm with this nikka in Ralphs and we see what appears to be a bad ass broad standing in the check out line.We see that she's with a dude who looks to be her man, but we go in for a close up anyway.

As we got close, we could only see her from behind.Thick lil frame in some cut off shorts and a spaghetti strap.We get in line directly behind her giving each other the:leon:look.Her man loading the groceries on the lil conveyor thing giving us the :birdman:look.He knew what it was....nikkaz was in Recon mode...anywayz

She turned around to check out the magazines and looked me dead in my eyes and we both kinda froze up.It was kinda awkward, but in my mind I'm going "Is that Vee Vee?:ohhh:"


I knew it was, but damn she looked good.Braces gone/no glasses/ bodacious:ohmy:.Looked like a totally different person.She never glanced at me again.Just played it off and walked off with her man.I kinda kicked myself for not having the foresight...just a lil bit.It is what it is.

But yeah, that was the only time.I would've never gussed that she would grow into something so fierce:wow:


I rarely use this because it's the most overexposed shyt on the internet right now but....


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This chick named Vivian.Dissed her all throughout 7th & 8th grade.

The first time she approached me was in 7th grade.I was guzzling down some water at the water fountain and when I turned around, she was standing right behind me.She seemed really nervous, but she worked up enough courage to introduce herself to me.She stuck out her hand to give me a handshake "Hi I'm Vivian, but my friends call me Vee Vee".It was all good, but her braces had me:huhldup:because I could see the saliva building up on them muthafukkas.It made her speech kinda slurred.Not only that, she wore glasses, to.

A part of me felt bad for her.She seemed hella nice, but the physical attraction just wasn't there.The only thing that I thought was fly about her was her skin tone.She had a golden brown/bronze skin tone.I'm looking at her like :ld:"at least your skin is flawless"


She had it bad, breh.I remember we had this lil Christmas party before Winter break.She wasn't in my class, but her class was right next door to mine.During parties, our teachers would let us go from class room to class room to mingle.Her and her girls showed up to my class, but she didn't come all the way in.She stood by the door, CRYING, while her girls approached my desk area.

"Vee Vee really likes you and she's out there crying right now.She wanted to know if she could have some chips off your plate(Christmas party.I had a plate of chips & cookies) and a piece of your hair:merchant:"

I hit em with the:leostare: and they started trying to go in on me, calling me "stuck up" and concieted.Telling me how fukked up I was for leaving her hanging and making her cry.


Luckily, that was my last day at that school.I didn't return for the next semester.Moms got on some spur of the moment shyt and decided to move back to Los Angeles(From San Diego).

Fast forward 4 years later, I'm back in Diego visiting my cousin.I'm with this nikka in Ralphs and we see what appears to be a bad ass broad standing in the check out line.We see that she's with a dude who looks to be her man, but we go in for a close up anyway.

As we got close, we could only see her from behind.Thick lil frame in some cut off shorts and a spaghetti strap.We get in line directly behind her giving each other the:leon:look.Her man loading the groceries on the lil conveyor thing giving us the :birdman:look.He knew what it was....nikkaz was in Recon mode...anywayz

She turned around to check out the magazines and looked me dead in my eyes and we both kinda froze up.It was kinda awkward, but in my mind I'm going "Is that Vee Vee?:ohhh:"


I knew it was, but damn she looked good.Braces gone/no glasses/ bodacious:ohmy:.Looked like a totally different person.She never glanced at me again.Just played it off and walked off with her man.I kinda kicked myself for not having the foresight...just a lil bit.It is what it is.

But yeah, that was the only time.I would've never gussed that she would grow into something so fierce:wow:

Man I got a similar story. I was in the 8th grade and it was this girl who would always mess with me. Like we sat in groups and she'd always kick me under the table and shyt like that. I never caught on that she liked me, I didn't like her anyways so it wouldn't have mattered if I did. We ended up going to different high schools. Fast forward like my senior year of high school when my step brothers moved back to MD from Maryland they (they lived with their pops, my pops was married to their moms) and they ended up going to the same church as the chick. One of my stepbrothers randomly started asking me about the chick and he said he talked to her and she knew me from middle school. He told me she said she was feeling me hard back then. Fast forward to now and we're all in our early 20
s, chick really blossomed, she even just recently ran for Ms. DC I believe . I think she real religious though so idk if I would have been able to smash anyways :manny:

Idk if this fits with the thread title being that I never "rejected" her and I don't regret not ever hollering at her either.
 

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meh, im on the fence and i havent really thought about it until recently.

its like :manny:

he tried to get with a friend of mine years before me, and an ex of mine was a friend of his who he still hangs with. it was just too much. he's chocolate, cute, tall and has a great body. so im thinkin maybe i shoulda been nicer cuz you never know, but im pretty sure i made the right decision
 
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