Anyone Successfully Make it Out of the Friendzone?

[The Natural]

http://www.sportsgamersonline.com/stuck-friendzone-whos-blame-3174

Yes? No? If you did make it out what are some tips you could give to others locked up in there??

 

[BrothaZay]

Move on

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

I reckon you're better off moving on.

thinking you can pull every woman in the world brehs.

 

[godkiller]

Move on

Curt reply.

 

[MikelArteta]

Simp brehs

 

[At30wecashout]

Best tip is to go ghost and occupy your time with hobbies and other girls.
I got out twice but never felt the same after the initial curving. Hit, resumed friendship, never pressed again, shrugged when it fell apart.

When you go do your own thing after telling them why, you get that text a few weeks later
"How come you won't talk to me anymore?"
"I have enough friends. I wanted you to be my girl."
Whatever she says after, if it isn't "I have feelings for you and wanna give it a shot" you ignore it
and either wait for the followup text a few days/weeks later or say bye-bye to the friendship.

It works like a charm when you switch up from doting bro wanting to be her boo to part-time friend who moved on to other things and now
realizes you don't need her as much as she needed you.

I started telling girls years ago who wanted my friendship so bad even after turning me down
for a relationship the following:

"I come as a package deal. You love the jokes, the good times, that is fine. I realize I can offer that to a girl who will like me as well. Good bye." Not that exact wording every time, but it gets the point across. Every moment you spent with a woman that doesn't like you is an opportunity wasted that could have been spent with one who does.

 

[onelastdeath]

You don't ever make it out of the friendzone. If you're a friend, then you're a friend. Trying to convince a girl to date you, and going extra hard to convince her that you two are compatible will only backfire in the end when a nikka she REALLY feeling comes around. Play your part :blackfdup:

 

[aliG]

If she aint feeling you physically from the get-go, ya its better off you move on breh.

 

[Opus]

Almost made it out but I didn't bite when I had the chance.

Stop being so accessible to her. Don't call back immidiately or hang out on a whim. Don't talk to her about her problems anymore.

Hook up with people you mutually know but that she isn't friends with. Or just start hooking up. Tell her about it. You want to get her thinking people see you in that way and hopefully shift her thinking some so she begins to see you that way too.

I smashed someone she knew and she asked for details said she was jealous. I just ignored it. Think after all that I realized I liked her as a friend and we could never work because she was too weird. . And I valued my friendship more than smash and dash

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Yup. We have now been married for 7 years.

I started messing with another chick. She got jealous and quit with the "I don't want a boyfriend right now" talk

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

I did but I put myself in that friends one because I was with my girl at the time so

 

[HoloGraphic]

I mentioned the friend zone to a Jamaican guy one time and he said "what's the friend zone?"



Quench your thirst breh.

 

[dc007]

The question you need to ask yourself is why do you even want to make it out of the friend zone in the first place? There are billions of girls on the Earth, why try to convince one who ain't feeling you in that way.

 

[re'up]

I had that talk yesterday,… girl is Iraqi with a range of issues…..Her brother and I are like family, and I fell for her hard, years ago, she basically has no education past hs, no career except working in families store, religious no self esteem or confidence to do anything else, or support she is a women in an Iraqi patriarchy, and is mid 30's….Very sheltered, she had 1 ex who she was with since 15 to late 20's…and since has had no relationships (or much sex, presumabaly) at all…and I really tried with her, I had to really push her to hear that 'Im not ready'….which was a relief, because it was an agonizing process, and I put myself all the way out there. And I am self aware and perceptive, without arrogance to know she really likes me…she just can't do it, she has her security blanket and won't let go. And she really went thru the whole process, or something similar, when that talk happened….denial, slight anger, acceptance…and finally 'you can call me for anything, to talk, money, anything, except a date..I'm not ready', I just said if she was ever ready, I hope i would be too, and if not find someone who really loves her…and thats it from me. I said everything I wanted to say. Best advice is always make what you want clear, never be deceptive, and be ready to walk away, no anger, no regret, no resentment. More then a little raw, because I genuinely love her,…but it can't be any other way right now. Yeah I am all in my feelings on my kevin Gates shyt today.

And of course, theres are too many girls known, and unknown to me that would be with me…to put myself through anymore of that.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Always be on your game. On your purpose and mission in life. And have FUN. Be FUN and have no attachment to anyone or any outcome.

By then you will even look at her differently.