Don't go to a generic club night. Follow DJ's who have a following because they bring people out to dance. shyt is not that complicated. I been doing it since the mid 2000's. In my city is a few parties with a reputation for being live. You can go to that same venue when it's a different DJ and crowd and it wouldn't be the same. Any clubs that cater to looking cool and buying tables are a no go for me.
Those the type of spots to fukk with you over dress code and make you stand around as they let whoever line bypass. I don't want to be around big egos and fake important people in a party setting.