Are there any dudes on The Coli that are still romancing girls?

BelieveBeOK

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I'm talking about sending your girl/wife flowers on a random day, organising suprise dates/getaways, suprise visits at work/her place, picnics etc.

As I get older I see more value in that kind of stuff but at the same time, I'm not sure if this current generation of women deserve romance.

To the guys that do it, what are the benefits you've seen and what's the most romantic thing you've done?
 

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Yeah, that shyt doesn't never get old. Some slow jams too and candles. Sometimes you just want to treat your girl right, take her out, her nice things. But can't do that with every girl.

 

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Are these nikkas really getting girls?

Romancing is a bit of a stretch, unless you mean imaginary girls.
 

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Are these nikkas really getting girls?

Romancing is a bit of a stretch, unless you mean imaginary girls.
I reckon 60% don't, which explains the hatred of women, self-pity, negativity and general anger around here, but this thread is for the dudes that have a life outside this forum
 

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Limited experience so take my insight with pinch of salt

Seems that a lot of women seem to not enjoy take advantage of this traditional behaviour and it's generally just unnecessary and outdated to them

Im sure theres a few that still desire and appreciate this stuff but a lot don't
 

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I still send floral bouquets to my wife at her job several times a year. Also randomly text her messages of love and occasional freakiness everyday. I play everything by the gut though. I don't overdo it. She's even commented that I know how to give her just the right amount of attention. Been married for ten years.
 

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I reckon 60% don't, which explains the hatred of women, self-pity, negativity and general anger around here, but this thread is for the dudes that have a life outside this forum

Most of the new type of chicks running around today just want gifts/money and the D. They don't care about romance.

Roll with the tide - romance is obsolete unless you're married.
 

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naw...i'm strictly down to holidays and special occasions only.....the wife ain't really down with all that constant simp shyt any......:mjgrin:
 

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Just surprised my wife with a trip to Jamaica for her bday. Lined up sitters for kids and all.

At least once a week i surprise her with a random gift, could be just a dress id think shed like, new headphones, jewerly etc.

I do these things bc she is a great wife and mom and she deserves it.
 
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