Are there any dudes on The Coli that are still romancing girls?

[BelieveBeOK]

I'm talking about sending your girl/wife flowers on a random day, organising suprise dates/getaways, suprise visits at work/her place, picnics etc.

As I get older I see more value in that kind of stuff but at the same time, I'm not sure if this current generation of women deserve romance.

To the guys that do it, what are the benefits you've seen and what's the most romantic thing you've done?

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Definitely depends on your girl and if she has a lot of traditional traits about her aka she cooks, cleans, gives you massages, looks towards you to lead/make decisions, etc.

Ain't nothing wrong with romancing your girl if she holding it down on her part.

 

[ba'al]

Yeah, that shyt doesn't never get old. Some slow jams too and candles. Sometimes you just want to treat your girl right, take her out, her nice things. But can't do that with every girl.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Really depends on the girl but if I'm being honest I've never been into that shyt. There's some out there who hate corny romantic gestures. My ex would dead ass be like why did you waste that money.... Lol

 

[Bonk]

Are these nikkas really getting girls?

Romancing is a bit of a stretch, unless you mean imaginary girls.

 

[BelieveBeOK]

Are these nikkas really getting girls?

Romancing is a bit of a stretch, unless you mean imaginary girls.

I reckon 60% don't, which explains the hatred of women, self-pity, negativity and general anger around here, but this thread is for the dudes that have a life outside this forum

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Limited experience so take my insight with pinch of salt

Seems that a lot of women seem to not enjoy take advantage of this traditional behaviour and it's generally just unnecessary and outdated to them

Im sure theres a few that still desire and appreciate this stuff but a lot don't

 

[Stir Fry]

I still send floral bouquets to my wife at her job several times a year. Also randomly text her messages of love and occasional freakiness everyday. I play everything by the gut though. I don't overdo it. She's even commented that I know how to give her just the right amount of attention. Been married for ten years.

 

[Bonk]

I reckon 60% don't, which explains the hatred of women, self-pity, negativity and general anger around here, but this thread is for the dudes that have a life outside this forum

Most of the new type of chicks running around today just want gifts/money and the D. They don't care about romance.

Roll with the tide - romance is obsolete unless you're married.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

I'm not a "long term relationship" type of guy and I have a stoic outlook on humanity..but if the girl is genuine,cooperative, and has a good head on her shoulders, then I'm gonna make sure she's satisfied in all aspects of life. Until then...

 

[Standing on business]

All the time

 

[Blankthawtz]

naw...i'm strictly down to holidays and special occasions only.....the wife ain't really down with all that constant simp shyt any......

 

[sayyestothis]

Just surprised my wife with a trip to Jamaica for her bday. Lined up sitters for kids and all.

At least once a week i surprise her with a random gift, could be just a dress id think shed like, new headphones, jewerly etc.

I do these things bc she is a great wife and mom and she deserves it.

 

[calixprynce]

I used to when I was still tryna "win" her over. Now that Im with her, to be honest, she dont deserve most of it .

When she start being wifey (cook, clean, etc) then she will be treated as such . rite now its kinda like I gotta kid

 

[Gold]

I will for a wifey type.

If she deserves it and appreciates it, all the better