Are there any other men who just flat out have NO interest in getting married?

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I'm not gonna out myself as too :flabbynsick: as far as age goes but let's just say I'm in my late 20s.

I've enjoyed living the single life, with some serious relationships sprinkled in, but I just have no interest of getting engaged or married. The idea of living with someone, having to share my life, sacrifice things I enjoy, just doesn't appeal to me at all. I like going out on weekends, I like playing video games on Saturday and Sunday mornings and some weeknights, I like going to the gym to hoop late on weeknights after work, I like watching sports.

I've never yet been with a chick who was OK with all this.. and I've never yet been with a chick who made me feel compelled to sacrifice all, or even some of that for. So as long as I can have casual hookups outside of all that, I don't see any sort of need to enter into a serious relationship.

Last chick I was with, I really liked her, we were serious, and she had me out going shopping on weekends, doing wine tastings, dinner with her friends, going to her family functions. This is all stuff you are supposed to do in a relationship but I was so bitter. I fukking hated doing that shyt. I was miserable and like "why am I doing thiis instead of doing shyt I really enjoy?"

I guess one fear I have is that I'll wake up one day and be 50 and be alone, and at that point it's too late to be out single and mingling tryna find a bytch.

I guess the bruh Phonte said it best… I want a girl when I want a girl, and when I don't want a girl I want a girl who understands that :francis:
 

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I wouldn't say I have no interest in getting married, it's just that I enjoy being single at the moment and I don't pressure myself into dating someone just so I can say I'm dating someone.

Part of it is because 85% of my generation is completely fukked and it's hard to find a good looking girl with goals of being successful and has some sense. I'll be the first to say I have high standards but I'm not super picky or anything. Just don't want a basic, dumb girl ya feel?
 
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When you get older, and you see all your friends settling down into marriage, children, family and you start to feel like something is missing from your life and change.



You aren't alone in this.


Lots of men feel this way about marriage, until what I posted above happens.


Good Luck. :salute:
 

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1. The world is filled with divorced men in their 40s and 50s

2. Many love their new freedom

3. Loneliness is a state of mind

4. No matter your age there will always be single women

I guess one fear I have is that I'll wake up one day and be 50 and be alone, and at that point it's too late to be out single and mingling tryna find a bytch
 

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I have no interest in marrying the unmarryable, saving a thot or single mother, or getting married to the modern woman without class or values and a body count in the 20s.

I live by the mantra no man should want to get married until he meets a woman worth marrying.

Until then :blessed:
 

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Please


When you get older, and you see all your friends settling down into marriage, children, family and you start to feel like something is missing from your life and change.



You aren't alone in this.


Lots of men feel this way about marriage, until what I posted above happens.


Good Luck. :salute:
 
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I have no interest in marrying the unmarryable, saving a thot or single mother, or getting married to the modern woman without class or values and a body count in the 20s.

I live by the mantra no man should want to get married until he meets a woman worth marrying.

Until then :blessed:



You will meet her, or you will settle.


If not, you will end up in your late 40s or 50s alone, paying for p*ssy and regretting it.


Take my advice.


You just haven't reached that point yet, or found the right woman.


If you are lucky, you will.


If your not lucky, you won't.



God Bless.
 

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When you get older, and you see all your friends settling down into marriage, children, family and you start to feel like something is missing from your life and change.



You aren't alone in this.


Lots of men feel this way about marriage, until what I posted above happens.


Good Luck. :salute:

I'm probably gonna be dead before or by 25....so I'm not worried :manny:
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
My friend turned 35 and is on that wave, on one hand he does well with the women, on the other hand that nikka will answer your texts promptly and won't leave you the fukk alone if you do text him. I don't know, he travels a lot which got me a lil jealous, but he does come off as lonely sometimes, I asked him once if he was gonna have kids and he told me he's using his nephews as surrogate children :patrice:
 
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