Are women who wife guys w/money undercover thots??

[NeilCartwright]

For example, girls in college who are looking to get involved with guys who are studying to eventually get high paying jobs. My aunt was an AKA, and locked down a guy who was pre-law and now they're both paid. I have another homie now who's dad is from the Caribbean, is a dentist and his moms works in the dentist office doing secretary shiiNormally i wouldn't care but my aunt said the other day "Yada yada, yea when someone isnt in OUR social class, etc etc" I was thinking to myselfwell technically your HUSBAND is the lawyer and you've been bouncing from job to job, just busting it open for this dude the past 20 yrs or so.


To top it off i had a girl last year at school specifically tell me she wanted a dude that was pre-law/pre-dentisty/ etc so she can live large down the road...That's why ill never understand dudes tricking money on females because some are just looking for a comeup. If i had some money like that i would rather that dynamic be an added bonus in the relationship instead of her seeking me out because of it, so she can brag to her friends about all the material shyt we have

 

[Elle Driver]

Meh, that's kind of what's been taught for a while though, for a woman to latch onto a man and marry up. But if those women don't have shyt going on for themselves, it is gold digger behavior except they was plotting from jump.

 

[Jhoon]

It's nature. some of you posters are just goofy.

 

[Couth]

Nah.

Its one thing to look for a dude for a comeup. Its another thing to look for a smart dude with potential. A lot of the times with females its not about the money, its about how you make the money. They want an elite dude because hes elite. They want some good genes to pass on. The money is secondary to them.

And if you have a day one female chances are shes done just as much for you as you've done for her. They say "Behind every great man, theres a strong woman". A good female will sacrifice everything to help you reach your goals. Even if you don't have anything to give her at the time. Thats not gold digging.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

since the beginning of time women have been doing this in one form or another.

 

[Aceofspades404]

If i had some money like that i would rather that dynamic be an added bonus in the relationship instead of her seeking me out because of it, so she can brag to her friends about all the material shyt we have

why do you think it's bc of that? with those occupations, they not really gettin paid until like their mid 30's and even then the lifestyle isn't as extravagant as you're claiming it to be.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Nah.

Its one thing to look for a dude for a comeup. Its another thing to look for a smart dude with potential. A lot of the times with females its not about the money, its about how you make the money. They want an elite dude because hes elite. They want some good genes to pass on. The money is secondary to them.

And if you have a day one female chances are shes done just as much for you as you've done for her. They say "Behind every great man, theres a strong woman". A good female will sacrifice everything to help you reach your goals. Even if you don't have anything to give her at the time. Thats not gold digging.

This man knows what he's talking about

 

[StickStickly]

I can see why it would be a turn off for a person to only like you for your profession. But those types are easy to spot so if men wind up with them they probably don't mind that behavior in the first place