I've been told I'm pretty good. I usually start off soft and french a bit. Slowly out the tongue in, then start kissing all over the face, get to the neck, nibble/bite on it (depending on the chick), pull back, get her to be aggressive, then rinse and repeat. A lot of it also depends on where you put your hands and how you rub up on her body. I usually go on round 2 by grabbing ass or rubbing her titties. Good 70% chance I smash on the spot and they usually go crazy for it. You gotta take control, then give the women control, then take back control. From there, the chances of smashing go up very high, not matter who is the chick or if she says she does or doesn't smash on the first date. Usually thats how i smash on a first date.