are you easily jealous/possessive?

[EARFQUAKE]

Jealously is a destructive yet normal trait in most of us. Do you get disgustingly jealous during a relationship? How do you handle this emotion so that it doesn't become toxic in your relationship?

 

[Critical Distance]

No, not at all. You have to understand people are gonna do what they want.

 

[全能の神]

Yes.

 

[Tunez]

Turn the emotion off

 

[Rozay Oro]

Nah

 

[全能の神]

Turn the emotion off

We not robots

 

[Dad]

I'm not going to lie, initially I was when I was putting them on a pedestal.
Then I found my worth & realized the only one I can control is myself.

 

[PeridotPuss]

For me it's not a "jealousy" that someone wants/talks with another woman or flirts with them or looks at them.

It's like anger ......at the audacity to disrespect me with that implication ....that you want something else, when you have all this.

nikkas be thinking it's jealousy over them. ....when I'm really in my feelings about me


Then I realize I'm the only me and no one can compare.

Then I start to wonder why I'm with the dumbass who doesn't see that


Then I feel like I need to make better choices

Then he'll be like. ...why you so jealous and acting insecure, I was just looking/flirting/being friendly....

And I'm like why am I even with you? go be with that bytch then. ....since you so nice

 

[The Mad Titan]

The more you value something or someone the more possessive of it you are.


Anyone tells you any different they lying.

 

[Rawtid]

With a guy I'm feeling, yes. In general, no.

 

[Prynce]

I'm not going to lie, initially I was when I was putting them on a pedestal.
Then I found my worth & realized the only one I can control is myself.

same

Grown folks gonna do what they want and you don't own any woman's p*ssy

 

[010101]

it's all 0's and 1's
no reason to hold on

*

 

[AlainLocke]

People ain't really worth it...

I find people to be a hassle...

Almost like a burden...well people are a burden...a necessary burden for the most part...

I am more annoyed that they wasted my time and didn't tell me their intention...

I am an upfront person...a lot of people are just cowards and think they are "playing" someone...nah you just wasting my time...

I got 1 billion better things I rather do...than to fukk around with people...


Jealously is corny...people are spread around like butter on toast...why I'ma be jealous when I am like the 20th nikka...

 

[KOOL-AID]

lol whats with these threads u been making? n i wld assume everyone gets jealous at some point, but honestly it wld depend on what she is doing.

 

[DarrynCobretti]

I think any monogamous relationship should have a healthy amount of jealousy/possessiveness (because that's a natural product of love/intense positive reaction of being in a loving, mutually exclusive relationship) but there is a fine line between those natural feelings and insecure jealousy.


With that said OP said "disgustingly jealous" though.. Nah bruh. One thing I've realized over the years, is that a nikka like me got far too many options in the world. fukk I look like being a slave to my emotions?
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