If you don’t hold back and avoid sex with most people, including most women who blatantly want to sleep with you, you’re living a crazy / chaotic life.
i was just explaining this to a chick that im dating....A lot goes into making a decision to fucck a chick.
- do I have the time to be texting or even talking on the phone
- does she look like her puccy stank
- do I wanna risk being seen with her
- am I in the mood for company?
- is she financially on my level - meaning do I wanna risk getting her pregnant
- when was the last time she had an std test done.
- is she coming to my house directly from another place - meaning she didn’t shower and isn’t fresh
Yes I can and have said no when answers to any of the above arent to my liking.

truth....i lived like that for a long time.....
i was just explaining this to a chick that im dating....
she wonders why i dont press her to smash....
i told her i been there and its more to life than that and that most women arent worth it TBH
