As I get older, the more I become a homebody. Please help.

[Sad Bunny]

I hate the crowded club and bar scene.

I got a girl so I don't go chasing p*ssy anymore and I don't get drunk anymore. I don't like impairing myself cause I rather be in full control.

I hate going to work happy hours

I find ways to avoid attending events:

(coworkers baby's 1st birthday party -- cacs and I won't know anyone there and it's a 2 hour drive)

Cook outs (rather stay home and not eat bad food and I don't have much in common with that group of friends. They haven't evolved)

I rather go hiking with my one friend who I can actually hold interesting conversations with and shyt.

I think I'm just getting older and I learned how to say no to things I don't want to do but I don't want to become a recluse

 

[Gonzo]

What do you mean you hate to be a recluse?

All that you just mentioned is totally reclusive...don't fight it. Do whatever makes you happy. It sounds like you're growing up yes but you haven't grown up out of your worrying about what other people think of me phase.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

jus do u breh..

 

[TRUEST]

find a hobby that pays and devote the time you spend being a recluse to that hobby so u dont completely lose out on life.

if ur not going to socially enrich urself, u need to make up for that another way. why do you need to? because your spirit is telling u ur lacking somewhere. that's why u had to make this thread.

 

[StickStickly]

I think it's a natural part of getting older. You just don't need to have as much social interaction anymore and it's forced on you less and less.

Are you depressed about anything in life tho?

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I hate the crowded club and bar scene.

I got a girl so I don't go chasing p*ssy anymore and I don't get drunk anymore. I don't like impairing myself cause I rather be in full control.

I hate going to work happy hours

I find ways to avoid attending events:

(coworkers baby's 1st birthday party -- cacs and I won't know anyone there and it's a 2 hour drive)

Cook outs (rather stay home and not eat bad food and I don't have much in common with that group of friends. They haven't evolved)

I rather go hiking with my one friend who I can actually hold interesting conversations with and shyt.

I think I'm just getting older and I learned how to say no to things I don't want to do but I don't want to become a recluse

You sound boring as f*ck.

 

[MikeyC]

#MisanthropeGang

We in here.

 

[calixprynce]

#HomebodyHustlaCrip over here nikka



embrace it

 

[DontDoIt]

embrace it

 

[Sad Bunny]

You sound boring as f*ck.

Afraid I am becoming. I never was this way at all

 

[Sad Bunny]

I think it's a natural part of getting older. You just don't need to have as much social interaction anymore and it's forced on you less and less.

Are you depressed about anything in life tho?

I don't believe so

Me and my girl just be chilling and shyt

 

[miranda]

you hate going out but you want us to suggest other activities that involve you going out?

well you enjoy hiking so maybe try some other outdoor activities, running club, biking, rafting

or if its the conversations a book club or politics discusion group wit the election coming up

once you stop drinking, going out to venures where the majority of people are drunk is not enjoyable, its super annoying

small concert venues are still fun even without alcohol if the musicians are good. i dont smoke but reggae concerts are the best

 

[Sad Bunny]

What do you mean you hate to be a recluse?

All that you just mentioned is totally reclusive...don't fight it. Do whatever makes you happy. It sounds like you're growing up yes but you haven't grown up out of your worrying about what other people think of me phase.

I would hate to become one is what I am saying. Cause I've never been at all lol

I'm the opposite really

I am going to a bday cookout in 2 weeks and it'll involved a lot of drinking.

And in a week I think me and a few others are going road tripping

So I do get out the house actually.

Just 2 weeks ago I went out but I wasn't feeling it but maybe because it was a cac scene

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Afraid I am becoming. I never was this way at all

Didn't mean to offend you, but you might need to find a hobby that will get out of the house.

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Afraid I am becoming. I never was this way at all

It doesn't sound like you're boring in general, it just sounds like you have nothing in common with the people you hang out with, so of course you'll be boring to them. Find some different friends and be more bold about pursuing other interests you have, even if you do it on impulse. There's more to life than the club and the bar; don't end up another 30 something year old out in the world, who has no hobbies and never has anything to do other than work, because life stopped for them once they got to old to go out and drink.