As I get older, the more I become a homebody. Please help.

[Sad Bunny]

It doesn't sound like you're boring in general, it just sounds like you have nothing in common with the people you hang out with, so of course you'll be boring to them. Find some different friends and be more bold about pursuing other interests you have, even if you do it on impulse. There's more to life than the club and the bar; don't end up another 30 something year old out in the world, who has no hobbies and never has anything to do other than work, because life stopped for them once they got to old to go out and drink.

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Good thing is my girl is down to do whatever I enjoy

My friends are too but they've just been partying lately and I can't understand it. One is married and his girl likes to go out and drink too. It's boring to me unless I'm getting some ass at the end of the night.

My other friend is more like me....he travels a lot even if just for the weekend. He's gonna road trip to canada with me.

My other homie does a lot of shyt but he's been back partying again. He like 33 and he parties with his chick. We went out 2 weeks ago and they danced and drank beer and shyt in this one little area of the bar lol

shyt was weird.

 

[Redwood]

#MisanthropeGang

We in here.

#Lonewolfgang is better.

 

[facemask]

#Lonewolfgang is better.

F*ck these bytches and f*ck these bytch ass n*ggas.

OP seems like you're making a mountain out of a molehill.

Buy some Legos or something.

 

[MidniteJay]

#MisanthropeGang

We in here.

I'm gonna have to sign up to this. Y'all taking members?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

You gotta live life on your terms the way you want to.

If you don't find things interesting don't do them....

Spend time doing things that you like to do regardless of what others think.

 

[Heafcliffe]

I hate the crowded club and bar scene.

I got a girl so I don't go chasing p*ssy anymore and I don't get drunk anymore. I don't like impairing myself cause I rather be in full control.

I hate going to work happy hours

I find ways to avoid attending events:

(coworkers baby's 1st birthday party -- cacs and I won't know anyone there and it's a 2 hour drive)

Cook outs (rather stay home and not eat bad food and I don't have much in common with that group of friends. They haven't evolved)

I rather go hiking with my one friend who I can actually hold interesting conversations with and shyt.

I think I'm just getting older and I learned how to say no to things I don't want to do but I don't want to become a recluse

Sounds like you've found your niche, brehski.
Congrats, mayne.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This is not a bad thing at all breh. U aren't becoming a homebody, u just finally figured out u have no common interests with the people u hang out with.

Plus as u get older ur social circle closes. U gotta figure out how you like to spend your time, and align with people who like to do the same shyt.

I would try Meetup.com.... there are a lot of "No Bar Meets" type social clubs.

 

[Sad Bunny]

This is not a bad thing at all breh. U aren't becoming a homebody, u just finally figured out u have no common interests with the people u hang out with.

Plus as u get older ur social circle closes. U gotta figure out how you like to spend your time, and align with people who like to do the same shyt.

I would try Meetup.com.... there are a lot of "No Bar Meets" type social clubs.

I feel you.
I got plenty of friends and now that I think about it. I went to a few bar/restaurants that turn into a dancing scene a few times in November and then January and it was mad fun actually.

I guess I just can do it in doses.

Those two times were for bday parties.

I also went to vegas and loved it but those are fun because EVERYONE is there to party and let loose and enjoy themselves. Lol.

I can't do this local shyt or the predominately cac shyt

 

[MikeyC]

I'm gonna have to sign up to this. Y'all taking members?

Hell nah, nikka.

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