My wife gets darker than me in the summer. I love it. She had a Filipina coworker who asked her why she wants to be dark, because her skin is so pretty in the winter and in the Philippines it’s considered “dirty” to be dark skinned.
Same dirty bytch was cheating on her husband on her lunch breaks trying to befriend my wife. They have a lot of issues to work out, in their community, before I’ll consider them true allies, but I see a shift taking place with the younger generations.