Too much seeking validation from external sources going on in these posts. Pretty much everyone is told that they are not good enough in one way or another. Either you are too dumb, too smart, too skinny, too thick, or whatever else people are going to call you. The key is to not give a f**k what people think.
Plus I see thick sistas get wifed all the time. In fact, from my experience in the corporate world, most thick sistas are married with children. The ones that aren't are usually busted in the face or have really wack personalities.
Voluptuous women do get over-sexualized, and sometimes I do feel sorry for them. But they are not at some disadvantage over other women. From the outside looking in, it looks like the pros heavily outweigh the cons.
Put yo soul at ease.
